They talk at family get togethers but no more! I wish they could both stop being so stubborn and talk. It is more my mom's stubborness than my uncle's. What do I do? I desperately want them to talk!
2007-11-16 05:17:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I know the reason... However, her bro was just being a crazy teen ager. He was 17 and did something stupid, but she was 25 and i think she understand that at the time he was just a crazy teen and has changed since then!
2007-11-16 05:26:33 · update #1
tell your mom how you feel...how you really feel...pour out your soul for her....if you feel strongly enough about it she'll come around
2007-11-16 05:22:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first thing you have to do is find out the ultimate reason for them not talking. Maybe it is far deeper than their being stubborn. If you said that they were not talking as long as you have been alive, i think the reason is not known to you. Again, try to discover first before you plan your next move on how to pacify them.
I saw your additional information...If that is the case then, try to understand the cause, talk about it with your mom, try to have a slow and tactful approach with her. Then, choose the time when she is happy and at the best of her mood when you open the topic with her. If she says no, just try to ask why and do not insist so much... try to understand her side of the story too.
Best of luck to you!
2007-11-16 05:24:36 · answer #2 · answered by Rouge 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 08:54:53 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well honey you can not force your mom and uncle to talk. Maybe there is something going on that you do not know about that happend in the past. Or they just don't feel like talking to each otherI is just the way things are. Sometimes you have to stay out of it.
2007-11-16 05:22:28 · answer #4 · answered by Phia 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know tell them how you feel about it tell them that you want the family to be happy and you are tired of seeing this and it is hurting you and if that dont work get them to run into each other my mom and her sister didnt talk untill i did that now i can stay with my cousins as much as i want good luck
2007-11-16 05:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by loverboi1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband did not talk to his siter for about 7 years. When they were teenagers they used to have fist fights!!! Fisrt you need to know why they are not talking, maybe it is something that happened that really hurt. Talk to your mo about it, tell her what you feel and talk to you uncle and do the same. My husband ans sis in-law now talk!:) My husband was the most stubborn and he was the first one to make the first move.
2007-11-16 05:31:12 · answer #6 · answered by mimimimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah well you should talk to your mom and tell her what you feel if she don't understand talk to your uncle I wish you luck my dad doesn't talk to his brother neither but that's because my uncle doesn't forgive him or his other brothers so I know exactly how you feel =]]
2007-11-16 05:22:53 · answer #7 · answered by Josie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be ingenious. try something. well ithink you must do a party or something like this for their unity like brother an sister. understand? if it doesn't work.... i will be no more here to help you :D
2007-11-16 05:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do nothing but mind your business. They are adults and if they can't get past it then it must be something terrible.
2007-11-16 05:22:50 · answer #9 · answered by j j 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
About what?
2007-11-16 05:20:15 · answer #10 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋