I feel so awesome today. I know some girls say they got upset knowing they lost their virginity but I feel really great about it. I met this guy last night and he was really hot. I wasn't planning on losing it last night but once we got started I was really ready. He's older (17) and he thinks I'm 15 (I'm actually 13) but he wants to get together again tonight. I know I'm babbling but I'm just so excited. Anyway my actual question was did any other girls get really happy after losing their virginity too or am I weird?
2007-11-16 05:12:53 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jeeze, I wasn't expecting that type of reaction. I was just happy and wanted to know if anyone else was. Why should I be ashamed? I enjoyed it and I'm anxious to do it again. I know I shouldn't have lied but when he told me he was 17 I was afraid if he knew I was only 13 he wouldn't be interested.
2007-11-16 05:20:44 · update #1
Hey, it's not like I haven't done anything before. I've fooled around and done oral and stuff. This was just my first time with actual sex and I'm excited. I can't believe I'm being called names because I had sex once.
2007-11-16 05:24:22 · update #2
I can't tell my parents! They'd freak out! They'd probably never let me out again and then I wouldn't be able to be with him again. I'm planning on seeing him again tonight but yeah, you're definitely right that I should get some protection.
2007-11-16 05:29:19 · update #3
Hey hun. I understand how you feel. I was happy when I lost mine and I lost mine at 13 too. There's nothing wrong with you. These people were a little rough on you but don't let it get to you. You have to do what's right for you. I do agree that you need to use protection though. Take care.
2007-11-16 06:19:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 5⤋
I didn't feel bad about it but I wasn't exactly bouncing of the walls either. It felt different but not so different. I loved the guy and we got married later and still are but the first time was knid of strange. But I wasn't thirteen at the time either. I'm sure you don't want to hear this but 13 is way too young. You have barely entered puberty. I just hope you were protected. And on the first date too. Oh my gosh. I'm not exactly sure but that sounds a little slutty to me. If you were going to have sex it at least should have been with someone you love or at least known a little better.
2007-11-16 05:24:02 · answer #2 · answered by countrygirl 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
being physically ready for something and being mentally ready for something are completely different.
For starters- you manipulated the situation you are in due to lying and what is not to say that he isn't lying to you?
Second- where are your parents? Do parents not watch their children anymore? At 13, I had to be home before dark and my mother always talked the parent of my friend during the time I was over their house. You aren't just hurting yourself- but you are hurting other people- what if you get a STD or get pregnant? Don't make grown up choices unless you are willing to live with the consequences of your actions.
You might not regret it now- but as you get older- and you see your friends are losing their virginity to people they love- you'll probably regret losing your virginity to someone who means nothing to you.
You should tell your parents and tell this boy that you are a liar.
2007-11-16 05:42:10 · answer #3 · answered by noramellie 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
iam appauled with this issue. ur trampy young *** is so freaking nasty. u should not b excited because u had sex. u should b worried about getting to high school and not worried about boys about to b men. that young man could get into a lot of trouble messing around with u and it would b all ur fault. u should not lie to anyone about ur age. do u realize what kind of reputation ur portraying for him. ur wrong and u know it. there is all kinds of diseases and std's out there and what about pregnancy? u r so young and not using the littel brain that u do have. y aren't u in school? y r u posting messages asking grown *** people for advice on a forum instead of doing some homework or studying. u need to get in together honey and stop running behind these men.
2007-11-16 07:44:38 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
So you are 13 and lost your virginity last night to a 17 year old you just met, who doesn't know you are that young?..And before that you were doing oral!! Geez..you must have been really young when you lost your freaking mind.
2007-11-16 05:37:32 · answer #5 · answered by John 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I was happy but I was also old enough to understand the consequences of sex and it was with my boyfriend who I loved and knew and trusted and not some random hot guy that didn't even know my real age.
Seriously, don't meet him again, he'll most likely just use you and when he finds out how much of a pedophile he's being he'll be disgusted with himself...focus on school.
2007-11-16 05:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by Ruthie 7 · 5⤊ 1⤋
Girls dont usually regret having sex until they are older. That is when common sense kicks in and we all realize that sex is overrated and that we could've and should've waited. This is what will happen to you. You said you met the guy last night, are you a tramp? Sorry to be so blunt with you but that is not the kind of reputation you want to have. If you kind of care for this guy, you need to tell him your REAL age. He could get into ALOT of trouble for having sex with you and he needs to know about it. Its too early, please go talk to your parents about your mistake
Edit: NEWSFLASH: If you can't tell your parents about it, then you probably shouldn't be doing it. You are very hard headed, if I knew you I'd run to your house and tell your parents. Shame on you. You're 13 and bragging about having sex (who cares how many times) and that you've done oral? You are an embarrassment. Please get yourself checked and get your life on track before you end up 21 with AIDS and 6 kids.
2007-11-16 05:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by First Lady 5 · 5⤊ 2⤋
LOOK EVERYONE ON HERE IS GOING TO TELL YOU IT'S WRONG, BUT'S THAT CAUSE IT'S TRUE !!!!!!! I'M NOT SURE WHAT U WERE THINKING , BUT WAIT UR ONLY 13 RIGHT UR STILL A LIL GIRL U DON'T THINK U NEED TO BE PAYING MORE ATTENTION TO SCHOOL , TO WHAT HE ,SHE SAID AND JOINING SCHOOLACTIVITS , INSTEAD OF GIVING UP UR VIRGINITY, THAT'S SOMETHING UR NEVER GOING TO GET BACK U WILL COME TO REGRET IT ONE DAY , I REALLLY HOPE THAT YOU NEVER HAVE SEX AGAIN TILL UR OLD ENOUGH AND READY YOUR ONLY 13 , WHERE ARE UR PARENTS??? U NEED TO STOP ALL CONECTIONS WITH THIS 17YR OLD , I WOULD SAY THAT U REALLY REALLY NEED HELP A.S.A.P
2007-11-16 05:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by PURE_LIFE 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Well your doing a couple things wrong!
1) you lied to him!
2) he is 17, that means that if your parents find out then he could be charged with RAPE! even though you wanted it!
3) where have people's morals gone? You're 13!!!!! didn't you ever think that it was a little young to start seriously thinking about sex? there is a nasty word that I use for people like you: whore
2007-11-16 05:17:56 · answer #9 · answered by mrsidahospud 3 · 5⤊ 2⤋
bad situation here..."he thinks im 15" and seriously only 13 girl do you get what just happened. Im not trying to rain on your parade here but 17yr old boys want one thing from more then one girl. im just saying......if i were you i would take my heart off my sleeve and put it some where that it can be protected. think about it if you were to get preg your baby would be going into kindergarden when you graduate from highschool.
the simple fact that you lied about your age says your too young
2007-11-16 05:20:33 · answer #10 · answered by ... 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋