girls use the jealousy weapon frequently against their BFs, but don't they ever bear in mind that that could turn against them so badly?! also, when a guy dumps his gf for her extreme abuse of this weapon, how will she feel? will she feel responsible? will she ever notice that?!
2007-11-16 05:11:05 · 28 answers · asked by survivor 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what jelousy weapon? Did I miss a day in "how to be a woman" school?
2007-11-16 05:15:08 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Women and men are very different. Some women make the mistake of assuming men think or react they same way they do. Matters involving jealousy are a good example.
Sometimes women will flirt with another man or pretend to be interested in another man, while expecting that their boyfriend will get jealous and show her how much he cares. However, they do not realize that to many men, having their girlfriend behave this way is interpreted as a sign that she pref errs someone else. If she seems unreliable and disloyal he may well begin the process of disconnecting from her or at least stop investing all of his emotional capital in their relationship.
It can easily lead to undesired results. Some men feel that she is disrespecting him and deliberately making him look foolish. Again, that can cause him to disconnect from her and seek a woman who respects him and the relationship more.
To me, it is an unhealthy way to get attention. While it may work, it is not the kind of attention that a healthy relationship provides.
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2007-11-16 13:22:41 · answer #2 · answered by Jacob W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they know what the consequences are but at the time they are not thinking about that. There are a lot of factors to people to get jealous, it comes from the insecurities that are manifesting inside of them. Confidence is also self killer for them. They also have a lot of factors like hair texture, size of the booty, breasts, hips, legs and many others. Some feel are those factors can or is working against them. It goes from their hair to the tips of their feet.
Being emotional creatures, it sometimes over power their judgment and it goes from there. When individuals let their emotions influence their judgment, a lot of problems will occur.
2007-11-16 13:24:47 · answer #3 · answered by Kaya M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually girls who try to make their bfs jealous are very insecure with themselves and have low self-esteem. Some girls try to make their ex-boyfriends jealous to win them back...my question for those girls is do you really think trying to make him jealous would work since he is the one that dumped you in the first place? I'm a girl, and even I know the jealousy weapon is one that should never be used.
2007-11-16 13:18:20 · answer #4 · answered by Everlast...ing 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not every girl is jealous! There are some who really are...but we all know jealousy is not right and it will never bring abt happiness in ones life!
There are some girls who take responsibility of their own mistakes..some who still wont think so! THere are guys who are jealous too!!!!! Trust me i know! SO its not just girls who use this as a weapon but guys do too!...but Jealousy is a bad habbit that makes a character indecent!
2007-11-16 13:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Marki 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ummm... I don't think you quite understand. They aren't using the jealousy weapon, they are just jealous. Guys do it too. And they will probably feel ok if the relationship goes bad because it is one of those "play by my rules or you don't play at all" sort of things. If you don't want to deal with the jealous, then you don't get the girl.
2007-11-16 13:17:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls who use the jealousy weapon are too insecure to just talk to their boyfriend about the real problem. They're also incredibly immature. Most likely, she will make excuses for being dumped - "It was coming", "we didn't connect anymore", etc. And since she's using the weapon for something else, she's not going to feel responsible; it's a valid response to whatever the guy did (in her mind).
2007-11-16 13:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 3⤋
Jealousy is not a weapon hon it is an insecurity. Unfortunately some girls/women don't really know how to keep it under control.
2007-11-16 13:16:14 · answer #8 · answered by S.T.F.U. already 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
umm usually she should feel like "I wish I could go back and change what I did" but then if you get back together its going to be the same most likely. I used to be very jealous I still am but thats why I'm single. I know that I need to grow up a little before I can be in a relationship understand that I need to trust that person.... I hope that helps a little
2007-11-16 13:14:55 · answer #9 · answered by tasteofink 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I guess the underlying question would be, "Are you committed to your woman or are you playing games?" Do you include her in your life (introduce her to your friends, make her your priority, are you in to 'being a couple', ((we all need our "space", where does she fit?))) A mature woman (man also) wants to know she is important, needed, and number one. If either partner is not ready for that kind of relationship, there will be the game playing...
2007-11-16 13:33:17 · answer #10 · answered by rp r 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They test their powers and think only of their desires.Think about the first woman ever what did she do?she ate the forbidden fruit because it looked desireable to her and she gave some to the man who was trying to fullfill her desire.
she wont feel nothing but the urge to let you see how much she could care less about it until you go crazy from her ability to do so
2007-11-16 13:20:59 · answer #11 · answered by savage_14u2000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋