I'm an ex-student,
we had something going only after I withdrew,
and by that I mean we had a great friendship with
a hint of romance,
I believe in staying pure until marriage so we never did nothing like that,
I want to send him a letter saying:
"I don't want that life-if I can't have you-I Miss You-And I am Sorry"
Don't ask about the sorry part, ya I feel ashamed for something I did, but it's not cheating or anything close to that!
If I send it to the college (it's a small community one - where everyone "talks" ), WILL HIS BOSS HAVE TO READ IT and
is that a bad idea (writing the letter) ?
I haven't spoken to him in 2 months
2007-11-15
19:04:55
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Yes, bad idea. If you have something to say, go say it in person; but more likely, speaking as an ex-prof, he won't want to be involved with a student, former or current. It's just not good for his rep on campus.
2007-11-15 19:17:56
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answered by Brent Y 6
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You will definately jeopardize his career if you send him a letter like that. It is against the rules to date a student. I think that you are just infatuated with this guy. Give it some time and you will get over him. But if you really want him then confront him personally about it. When it comes to love age doesn't matter.
2016-05-23 09:10:41
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answered by Anonymous
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Unless there is some really wonky employment agreement at your college it is very unlikely that anyone would screen your prof. mail.
That being said you might want to send it to his house. You can probably find his address in a phone book or on google.
Also, there is always the telephone.
I would stay away from e-mail.
Edit: and to answer your original question yes if someone else found it it could potentially jeopardize his career, so be careful.
2007-11-15 19:13:08
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answered by Charles X 3
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The secretary for the department will open it and read it before he ever sees it, and your instincts are right on this one, he'd be screwed without the benefit of sex.
Can I just point something out here? If he hasn't gotten in touch with you after 2 months, you didn't really have anything.
That was all in your head, because he has access to your records and could look you up and get in touch if he wanted to. Let it go and find someone who actually cares.
2007-11-15 19:09:48
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answered by Anonymous
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Dear Somewhere in my memory,
Honestly i think its difficult to give you fair advice without knowing what you believe and why this question is specficically addressed towards Christians. i take a guess that since you are wanting to stay pure until marriage that your religious beliefs come into play. And so the question is do you want to do what is Biblical? i think that's really important because i'm confused by your statement and i'm afraid to take it out of context and mis-advise you.
Feel free to email me if you'd like to hear some Biblical advice on the matter.
Hope that helps. Kindly,
Nickster
2007-11-15 19:10:33
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answered by Nickster 7
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No, I wouldnt send it to the college if I were you. He could get into trouble for those hints if anyone were ever to see it.
If you really want to talk, just call him up and speak to him directly.
Good luck.
2007-11-15 19:08:09
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answered by catwomanmeeeeow 6
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His boss won't read it cause it's illegal to open someone else's mail.
Send the letter to let him know how you feel. Get it all off your chest.
If you can send it to his house, do so. But if you do not know his mailing address, then go on and send it to the college, it will get to him.
Cheers
2007-11-15 19:09:00
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answered by Anonymous
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Just send it to his house, unless he's married or something.
2007-11-15 19:32:02
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answered by Daisy Indigo 6
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yes that's a bad idea for a myriad of reasons don't do that
2007-11-15 19:14:36
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answered by Anonymous
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if he has a secretary, she'll open it before he does. DON'T.
2007-11-15 19:07:51
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answered by vanessa c 6
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