How do you explain Sex??

Question

Ealier I ask how do you feel about sex, now I want to know how would you talk to a teen girl about sex a teen boy about sex. Would you say that they should never do it, or that it okay?

Answer 1

Well you have a choice...you can talk to your teenager about sex or you can let them learn it from their friends, which most learn at a very early age now....I don't think I will have a problem talking to my girls about it when they are teenagers...I want them to be able to think for themselves and use common sense and be safe.... I would rather them be honest and safe ...than listen to the wrong people and hide their sexuality...

Answer 2

I'd hope that this conversation would start long before puberty. "The Sex Talk" can be pretty traumatic...why not make it a non-issue and just talk like you'd talk to anyone else - from a young age? Sex is a fact of life. Even children experiment. If they know at a young age what's appropriate and what's not, they'll be a lot more likely to want to do what's appropriate, and a lot less fascinated with the "forbidden".

Answer 3

Explain the physical parts and how they work. Disuss the effects of teen pregnancy on the child and mother. Explain how difficult it will be for them resist making love when they are in certain situations, and how planning ahead with a clear mind is so important. In my opinion, forbidden sex makes it more appealing. Encourage them to make the dicision of what they think is the most responsible thing to do, and just encourage them to remember that in the heat of the moment.

Answer 4

I'll consider this if and when I actually HAVE a teen... lol

Actually I'd rather they just new the most basic basics (in a kid-friendly manner) from the time they are younger, so by the time they are teens they basically know it and it's not some curious mystery they will get themselves in trouble with. I would rather that they'd *at least* wait till they are out of the teens if they aren't going to wait until wed...

Answer 5

I would say its better not to have active sexual life in teenage. Coz teenage is a time when your brain is not fully developed to handle the sudden influence of the hormone surges that happen in this age but you find yourself physically developed as a full adult. Sex is like fire. You keep it under your control you can feel its wonderful warmth. But if you let it control you, you find yourself on fire for a while, but will end up with really bad burns.

Answer 6

35 year ole men simply would not talk about said subject with a teen unless said man was said teens daughter or son as said man could end up in jail for doing so.

Ask your parents.

Answer 7

The teenage years are when the sex drive is at its highest. I would explain how not to get into trouble such as unwanted pregnancy of disease,

The other thing is that you make the decision, you live with the consequences

Answer 8

Sex is a physical interaction of which the main purpose is reproduction. It should only be done between those who have committed their lives to each other.

In other words: Abstinence 'til marriage.
The smarter and wiser choice.

Answer 9

I'd tell them exactly what the mechanics are, the risks involved, how to protect themselves, but that no protection can 100% protect against either pregnancy or disease except abstinance. Then I would answer whatever questions they had.

Answer 10

The bottom line is the babies they produce. Every child deserves 2 mature, committed parents. Everything sexual and its consequences should be explained clearly with this in mind.