2007-11-15 16:19:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Oh gee I could make a list.
I once dated a guy that said I let my head over-rule my heart. He later married, beats his wife and so that made me more inclined to think that leading with my head wasn't such a bad idea.
Anyway currently it has to do with my dad. Everyone tells me he asks about me, misses being around me and talks about me all the time. Everyone tells me that he is also drinking heavy again.
My heart wants to reach out to him but my head tells me I don't want to be the kid he falls back on in his drunken stupor. I just can't be that person anymore. The jury (head/heart) is still out. If anyone has any advice I would be happy to hear it!!
(((VC)))...That hug is more for me right now than you...I stole it.
2007-11-16 01:28:12 · answer #1 · answered by queen of snarky-yack again 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything involving romantic relationships. So far, the heart's winning the the tug of war, and has put the head in check.
2007-11-15 16:25:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My heart wants me to tell this person that i love how i feel, but my head is saying nononononononononono badbadbadbadbad! He's not in any position to hear you right now! don't do it!
But my heart argues that he feels the same. My head says you dont know for sure, and even if he did he's still in no position to deal with you right now, he's in the philippines on a mission for God!
My heart says "But if he loves me, then what does it matter?" My head says"God trumps you, heart, every single time in [insert guy's name]'s eyes, and you know it!"
So my body gives in. Head over heart.
*cries*
2007-11-15 17:48:01 · answer #3 · answered by Princess Ninja 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do I continue to visit this platform or not.
Edit: Analyzing the answers, is Fun,! But is a side track to my life's goals, and the information gained is of negated value, in that, the societal impact on the individual is squelched because they (Ask er/answerer) are not talking face to face with another human.
But its fun!
See my dilemma?
2007-11-15 16:35:23 · answer #4 · answered by bobalo9 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
is the human race good at heart--its the one thing i believe-in spite of what my head says after reading the paper-and watching the news and seeing some of the q and as on here--just my thoughts--smile and enjoy the night
2007-11-15 16:24:12 · answer #5 · answered by lazaruslong138 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
my heart tells me I love my husband &wants to forgive my husband & have him move back home , that my children need both their parents. My head tells me: he will never change, he's still enjoying being separated so even though he says he misses me, he still doesn't want to come home yet,he's selfish & is only thinking about himself, that we are toxic together, that the kids shouldnt be raised with parents that argue all the time, & that i should file for child support.
To others, my family & friends its simple, to me heartwrenching.
2007-11-15 16:31:47 · answer #6 · answered by kah35 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My head tells me maybe I should listen to friends and family that tell me to get out and date. My heart tells me that part of my life is over since losing my husband last year. I have never slept in our bedroom since he died.
2007-11-15 18:30:15 · answer #7 · answered by One Wing Eagle Woman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is there ANYONE out there who has a decent reason for believing in God?
More and more, I find the answer is no. But I guess I keep on looking for that person who may change my mind.
2007-11-15 16:39:09 · answer #8 · answered by skeptic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman I'm in love with, but cannot be with.
My head says never talk to her again ,and don't answer when she calls.
My heart says do whatever it takes to make her yours, and never look back!
Ugh, why can't life be simple?
2007-11-15 16:32:44 · answer #9 · answered by lmn78744 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My head wants to exercise, but my heart wants to watch TV
2007-11-15 16:22:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋