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ive been thinking about the possibility that i may never ever get a woman to like me, even as a friend (i dont have any friends either). I know people are bound to say just wait the right girl will come, but im tired of just waiting, i want to take action cuz i feel if i just wait my whole life i might spend my whole life doing just that. and dont get me wrong i dont even care about sex at this point i just want to have someone actually care about me. i go everyday and i make no progress and im at a major college. 9please dont say i should worry about my grades because that is my primary worry i study a lot)

2007-11-15 14:53:52 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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QUOTE TIME!!! YEA!

"You'll make more friends getting interested in people in two years then you'll ever get spending your whole life getting people interested in you!"

Do you know what that basically means? Your "friendlessness" situation is actually a direct affect of your inability to relate to people! Your a loser! Thats right! I'm not going to hold back punches brother, thats not my place at all. You get the brutal honesty with me, bro. That all aside, get out of your f'in shell, realize people are just like you, and get interested in them!!!! THats how it works! Its actually pretty amazing. See most people are COMPASSINATLESS! Thats right, most people THINK their good people, but true good people can relate with anyone no matter the circumstance because fundementally were all the same, isn't that amazin! So until you realize the power of this and how it's going to change your life, you need to be depressed, you need to be PISSED at you, because your failing yourself. Sorry its the way it works, just don't expect many people to just give you truths, them, themselves don't understand. Now a good start for you is to start by asking people why their in college, what major there taking, why they descided to join that college in perticular. Basically satisfy your own personal curiousity and at the sametime, make a friend, its that easy. Trust you won't get it right in the beganing but thru time, you'll have plenty of friends, and you'll find her to!

2007-11-19 09:14:18 · answer #1 · answered by Brutal Honesty 7 · 0 0

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