Really need some advice here people and please be nice. My boyfriend and I have a 11 month daughter. She is his fist daughter but second kid has a son age three. She is also his parents first granddaughter. My parnets second grand daughter. His sister is having a girl and it will be here monday. I am afraid because his sister lives with his parnets that once there other grand daughter is born that they will neglect ours. She is throw and throw a nanas girl oh his side. On my side my sister lives with my mother and has a 7 month old boy and I feel like since they have moved in toghter she has nothing to do with my 11 month old and my daughter doesn't have much to do with her cause of this. Is this mornal or am i just blowing things up? Could really use some advice cause i don't want for her to lose her reltionship with his mom. Please help me!!
2007-11-15 13:57:45 · 6 answers · asked by mammabear_327 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
my dear, a grandmother don't run-out of love?if she had 10 grandchildren she'ded love them all , some may get loser if they live with her, but I'm telling you grandmothers have enough love to go around, being a grandmother is as good as it gets, its a very important job and duty.just make sure your baby gets her time with grandma to, even if you pick grandma up and let her spend time with both-of you, that way she don't get to tired out, plus you form a bond with her. don't read stuff into the situation that isn't there you don't want any hurt feelings, just enjoy the kids
2007-11-15 14:14:44 · answer #1 · answered by debbie d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your insecurities are normal,but I would not worry about it too much.It sounds as if her grandparents are loving,caring people.I highly doubt that they will push her aside for the new baby.It just means that there is less time for the grandparents to spend on one particular child.The good thing about grandparents is this-they never get tired of spoiling their grandchildren.Just relax and know that your daughter has formed a special bond wth her grandparents,and no new baby will ever change that.
2007-11-15 22:05:20 · answer #2 · answered by sacred_hart_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good grief - why do you think people have to "take sides"??
Love is ENDLESS, hon - and I'm SURE that all the various family members you named will have MORE than enough to go around.
You really need to look at your attitudes - children aren't in a "popularity contest", and if you program your daughter to feel that way you're going to be doing her a REAL disservice.
Good luck.
2007-11-15 22:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Harleigh 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are very worried about this. You also sound very young?!!?! Please try not to let this get in the way of your family's happiness. Your baby will not be neglected by her family. Your family has enough room in their hearts for the joys of several babies. That doesn't 'mean they love yours anymore than anyone elses or love yours any less that the others.
2007-11-15 22:04:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you give her all the love she needs and protect her from abuse she will be ok. Quit worrying about something that hasnt even happened yet.
2007-11-15 22:03:28 · answer #5 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you're really immature. Seek counseling.
2007-11-15 22:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋