i have been there 2 yrs and i dont talk much and i dont how to start conversations. i went my last year and since i dont know how to talk to people i was bored out of my mind. i am 32 yrs old. how is it possible to converse with people i see that i have a crush on
2007-11-15 13:23:58 · 5 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You'll learn a lot. Tag along somebody you are friends with and learn from their conversations. At a company party, you usually want to approach people you know, strike up a conversation, and not about work. Don't be too worked up about it. If you feel really uncomfortable, like I said before, go with somebody so you won't be the quiet one in the corner. If you're 32, it's about time to learn adult social rituals and such. Relax and let yourself go. People are usually at their best when theyre not inhibited by anything.
2007-11-15 13:29:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have poor communication and social skills too. I generally don't like going to any social gatherings, like parties or clubs. But I suggest you to start off being friendly with people and just start talking to them by talking about maybe the job or something you both might have in common.
2007-11-15 21:31:46 · answer #2 · answered by =P 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you should go! is there anybody you know there, that you can not feel anxiety? if there is, hang with them. If not, go just for the experience. Maybe someone you don't talk much to, has the same hang-up that you do. All you gotta do is; walk up to them, greet them, give people compliments about somthing, maybe it'll open a door you know. comment to them about how nice people look aroud you, if it does'nt say; nice chatting/talking with you, we'll talk later, and walk off. if they start talking to you listen to what they say, and make a comment to what they said. ask questions!
2007-11-15 22:11:34 · answer #3 · answered by lonelyboy49 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
drink some alcohol.....then drink some more.......and then a little bit more......then go.......then buy a round for your friends and say marry Christmas lets party. I am sure there will be some conversation that spurs from this.
2007-11-15 21:30:48 · answer #4 · answered by SWAG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring a friend along so that you won't be bored out of your wits.Try to involve in any games. anyways try taking up some
activity courses for you to open up e.g,roller blading,canoeing,dancing.You can look them up at 88db website.have fun:)
2007-11-15 23:18:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anji 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋