im a 15 yo guy. my gf just turned 14 shes my first gf n im her first bf. weve been going out for 2 weeks n weve kised a few times. well she told me that she wants to do somthing special for our 2 month anniversary, n when i asked wat she said that shes still thinking about it and didnt want to sound slutty. she said heres a hint its a 3 letter word and it starts with s. i pretended like i didnt kno wat she meant n she saaid shell tell me when the time comes and that she asked her best friend n she thinks that we should. idk wat to do if we do do it and she gets pregnant thatd b really bad. but i really like her so idk wat to do! i dont wanna lose her either, i kno if we do do it ill use a condom but theres still that risk.... :-( i thot i would b happy if i ever got the chance to have sex but now idk i feel worried someone plz help!
2007-11-15 13:23:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First, let me say that I am applauding you for thinking this through!
2007-11-15 13:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by banger_sisster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok wow this girl is not a good girl if she is willing to sleep with you that young and only 14 that is not good...You are still young and even if the boys say go for it and her friends say go for it DONT...you dont know real love and you guys will regret it trust me!!!! I am 20 i lost it when i was barely 16 and he was 17 and we both agreed that it was too young...Just wait grow as a couple and see where things go you both have some major growing up to do before you make that big of step...and trust me you need to know more about each other then what you know after 2 months!!!!!!!!!!!!! JUST WAIT YOU ARE WAY TO YOUNG!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-15 21:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by MissingLove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have more sense than a lot of teenage guys, since you are questioning whether it's a good idea. You are correct, even if you use protection she could still get pregnant, and if that is something you aren't ready for, then don't have sex yet. Besides, 14 is way too young to have sex.
2007-11-15 21:28:46 · answer #3 · answered by learning_to_live_616 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, take a deep breath and dont worry so much. Your life is not in danger. If sex is such a worry for you then you should just wait until it feels like the right time. You're still young and have plenty of time to try to figure out the male-female game.
2007-11-15 21:28:19 · answer #4 · answered by megalomaniac 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there are a lot of risks in having sex. if your not handle responsibilities that may accompany sex then i'd advise you not to do it. have sex is a very big deal and you need to make sure you are totally ready. there is always a risk that the girl will get pregnant so be prepared for that. don't do it if you're not ready.
2007-11-15 21:31:49 · answer #5 · answered by nothing's certain 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WAIT! You have alot of growing up to do...If you feel like you're ready to be a dad then go for it. And your first time should be with someone you love....and love doesn't happen in 2 months when you're 15
2007-11-15 21:31:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think you 2 should wait until your older. if she really cares about you she will respect your decision to wait until your both ready for it. personally i think she only wants to have sex because she can and i dont think she realizes the risks of having it. if she gets pregnant at 14 her future will change drastically (and not for the better). WAIT UNTIL YOUR BOTH READY FOR THE RESPONSIBILITY. i do have to agree that you do have more sense then a lot of guys your age =D
2007-11-15 21:38:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you dont feel good about it then dont do it. If you lose her over not wanting to have sex which is very mature on your part (good for you) then she's not the girl for you. Tell her how you feel , and dont let her change your mind about it.
2007-11-15 21:29:19 · answer #8 · answered by that hot chick 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry to much about it you should consider yourself lucky I mean I have been waiting for my gf to do that to me for 12 years and it never happened because of responsibilities
2007-11-15 21:31:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait. don't do something until you're fully sure that you are ready/want it. There's always going to be time in the future, why rush it?
2007-11-15 21:28:28 · answer #10 · answered by Adeste Fideles 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋