How do i know if i will be missed by my friends n family if i commit suicide?
2007-11-15 13:04:30 · 14 answers · asked by xAxGIRLxCALLxKILLx 3 in Health ➔ Mental Health
John Donne wrote something about interconnection. You can find it at:
http://isu.indstate.edu/ilnprof/ENG451/ISLAND/index.html .
We are all interconnected and your death would diminish me just as surely as death of a loved one would.
I don't know your family or friends so I can't answer that one honestly.
My educated guess is that yes you will be missed.
Perhaps that is not what is really important right now though.
If you commit suicide, is there one person or even a pet that you will miss?
Everyone needs a reason to get out of bed in the morning.
Mine is my dog.
This website here
http://www.metanoia.org/suicide/
is written by someone who also wondered those things and there are some simple suggestions in it that might help.
Write to this addy:
jo@samaritans.org
The Samaritans are a group of volunteers who use the penname "Jo." I have written to them myself. "Jo" will email back with a few things to think about and a question. It is free. The Samaritans do not try to talk anyone out of suicide nor do they contact the police.
2007-11-15 13:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by fluffy not stuffy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You wont be..
Youre friends will move on, youre family will mourn you for about a year then move on tehmselves.
Please.. never commit suicide.. Its NEVER worth it.. Theres always a better resort than suicide..
"All you get is a newspaper artical, then the next youre just another blast from the past"
Trust me.. Suicides NEVER WORTH IT!
2007-11-16 02:45:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey hun, please call 1-800-784-2433 - that's the number for the national suicide hotline. They have professionals there who can help more than anyone on here. Just believe that things will get better. I've been there and I know that is true. There are people who love you and would be devastated. Believe it.
2007-11-15 21:15:52 · answer #3 · answered by Cam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
easy, b4 u decide 2 do it (which i hope u dont cuz its bad, believe me i almost did) talk 2 1 of ur bffl's and say sumthin like if i commited suicide would u miss me and if they say no then i would hav but none of my frends said that so i decided not 2 but u need 2 ask ppl......but plz dont XD
2007-11-16 07:11:08 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea Gracexox 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Does your family and friends love you and talk to you? I am sure that the answer is yes. Therefore it is very selfish and wrong of you to even be thinking this question.
2007-11-15 21:14:53 · answer #5 · answered by k-baby 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm, don't let this sound weird, but i (no idea who you are) would feel terrible if i found out you committed suicide. things like that just tear me apart.
there's wayy to much to life to just end it.
so just imagine how people who know you and are close to you would feel?
2007-11-15 21:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by MrTayL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I ask myself that all the time. Sometimes I just want to do it as payback for not letting me have a freakin life! I am here trapped in this little jail-cell-of-a-house, while all my friends are out hanging out! I feel so lost...
2007-11-16 20:17:16 · answer #7 · answered by Erica Epidemic™ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Imagine if you had a best friend or baby that you loved very much, and suddenly they just died. Wouldn't that just tear you apart?
2007-11-15 21:07:42 · answer #8 · answered by Smile :) 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go ask your family this question.
2007-11-15 22:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES... THINK IF A FAMILY MEMBER OR YOU FRIEND KILLED THEMSELVES, HOW WOULD YOU FEEL, HURT? BETRAYED? SAD? MAD? WOULD YOU REALLY WANT SOMEONE TO DO THAT TO YOU? AND WOULD YOU MISS THEM?
2007-11-15 21:12:49 · answer #10 · answered by Miss Rhonda 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋