Family is so twisted and a bunch of users and they lie to themselves.The mother is the worst she has raised her family this ways she favors the boys even tho they are always breaking the law and she lies to cover for them.
2007-11-15 12:53:22 · 13 answers · asked by Q-C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
invite them to dinner and tell them you're buying!
2007-11-15 12:56:00 · answer #1 · answered by Heather H 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if they use each other, then it sounds like they are together. I don't think there is anything that we can do about that now, so I guess it is up to the kids to grow up and find out that they where not raised right. The law will catch up to them, and no matter what the mother does they will go to jail. It is a sad world when people are not even honest with them selfs.
2007-11-15 20:59:28 · answer #2 · answered by LIPPIE 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is one of the pain that you and me are experiencing in today's society. The reason is lack of formation both on the side of the mother and father. The children are just the fruit of the goodness of the parents or the wrongdoings of the parents. There's a saying, "the tree is judge by the fruit it brings forth." Because there is low morality in the family it is possible to let them be cured of their sickness. They need a professional help! If you are a friend of the family you can be of great help. Stay at the middle when you are listening to each of them. Listen to them and do not make judgments. Suggest to them to seek for professional help!
2007-11-15 21:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by lui 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless you have a professional intervention (with a social worker or counselor on hand), I wouldn't hold out too much hope for an amicable reunion.
Sometimes things are just better left unsaid.
I have the same problem with MY family, I relate to what you're saying.
2007-11-15 20:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by Harleigh 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like my family your talking about. Theres nothing you can do to bring them closer together. Because someone is always fighting. Just hang out with the family members that you like and who treat you right.
2007-11-15 20:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget it, you're better off without them. I try to keep as far away from most of my family as possible. They are losers who don't live in reality. My life has been much more peaceful since doing that.
2007-11-15 20:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you really want to get invovled? Why do you care is ot your family or a family you are getting invovled with by someone you are dating? If you start to get involved they might and probably will all turn on you. Run and stay away
2007-11-15 20:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by flamingo 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you even want to bring a family together like that. Seems like they are not going to change so why bother.
2007-11-15 21:00:17 · answer #8 · answered by April First 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read Boundaries by Cloud and Townsend.
No other book has come close to having such an impact on my life. It sounds like it would fit this situation perfectly.
2007-11-15 20:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by debbie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oH, that sounds like my family...
The best things to do is keep your distance
except for holidays. Everyone can come together then, and leave for the rest of the year......
That how we do it ........
2007-11-15 21:00:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be hard If you don't watch out they will use you to.My best answer would be set a example for them.
2007-11-15 20:59:08 · answer #11 · answered by bittywrap 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋