Okay My sister, is very beautiful, but she has VERY low self esteem. She hangs around all the low lifes in town. The ones who don't have a job at age 23+ and don't have a car yet. She tells me she wishes I was dead. She does pills but she professes she doesn't anymore. She gets drunk and hangs around the ***** who rape bitches. She has been raped before at a party she was gave to many pills and drank to much.. I don't feel sorry for her anymore... She wishes i was dead and says one of her guy friends are going to beat my a$$ (hahahah) I lost all respect for her. I could care less where she ends up. Do you think thats shitty? I don't feel sorry for her at all. She could choose to change her life, but she doesn't. So, I don't feel sorry for her. She wants a new life and a new start but, she needs to stop hanging out with these f&ck ups and maybe she could go somewhere. is it bad 2 not feel sorry for her?
2007-11-15 12:52:53 · 2 answers · asked by Danny J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
With the way she is leading her life and is not showing any intentions to improve, she does not deserve any sympathy.Your worrying for her is not likely to yield any fruitful results.She is grown up and can be reformed only if she herself desire to reform.
2007-11-16 02:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by yogeshwargarg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you love her and care about her, and tell her if she wants her life to be different then she will have to do something different.
Tell her:
"if you continue doing the same things you have always done, you WILL continue to get the same things you always got".
Then invite a preacher from a United Pentecostal church over, they can help you both and they have a program to get her off dope and alcohol.
She does these things because she wants to feel loved and accepted and the dope numbs her pain.
2007-11-15 22:18:09 · answer #2 · answered by Joe F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋