I was at a bar with a friend and a friend of a girl he knew, I flirted with and asked for her number....
She smiled and said "I'll see you around here"......
I don't get it. I didn't fawn, tried to remain subtle and didn't crowd.
Im a nice guy, and I treat women good, but to be hones why rejected?
I've been rejected alot, and if any of you take that as a opportunity to judge, then that's your attitude problem talking....
Sorry, but men have feelings too. It just bothers me that men have to be so careful with women or you'll ridicule us....
I didn't know I came off like a 69 year old perverted pedaphile? Im 26!
2007-11-15 12:46:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well maybe she wasn't interested in you, and she could have already had a boyfriend. just because she talked to you which you may have considered flirting, doesn't mean she wanted anything besides conversation.
not to mention maybe she gave a man her phone number before and he called her a million times, and she didn't want that too happen again.
or maybe it's something you say, if you have been rejected so many times.
i don't know her reason, but i think you are taking it a bit harsh. I don't give my phone number to men in bars either.
2007-11-15 12:50:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe its the way you asked her. She also might not have found you or your personality~ her type of guy. Not everyone feels the same way. Go there more often and see her there and maybe on a karoke night she can see a side of you she has never seen before. Are you fun to be around? Do you laugh a lot? Tell stories? make others laugh? Maybe she likes to know people better before she gives out her number and maybe she doesn't like feeling trapped with one person, maybe shes a free spirited girl. You may just want to try being closer to her as a friend, and see what happens. The reason we do this sometimes is because we aren't looking for a boyfriend, we want to have fun with eveyone without feeling like someones there mad because were talking to someone else. As long as she remains your friend, you can never make her feel bad. You can never say, why are you talking to him, or looking at him or kissing him, she can do what SHE wants to do and enjoy being young.
2007-11-15 20:57:54 · answer #2 · answered by darlin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with her saying what she said. She might want to get to know you better with friends around and not yet ready for a date. Or it could be that she was just not that into you. Time will tell. Don't write her off and all women. It takes time to find the right one! Good Luck!
2007-11-15 20:50:47 · answer #3 · answered by Dance 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I, for one, have never ridiculed a man for asking for my number. I have been known to giggle at really bad pick up lines like, "Do you come here often?"
Some girls just don't give out their number. Maybe this girl gets asked for her number a lot, and so as a general rule she doesn't give it out.
I would imagine that hearing "no" would get very frustrating. Just keep on keeping on. Maybe next time you can offer a girl your number. She may or may not call, but at least somebody got somebody else's phone number.
2007-11-15 21:14:50 · answer #4 · answered by amy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It could be she would like to get to know you a little better before giving out her number. Don't take it so personal. Meet with her at the bar. If she's interested you will become friends. Then, you can take it from there.
2007-11-15 20:53:31 · answer #5 · answered by Vida 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok.. First most females.. this they are better then the world and the get off on how many men ask them for there number.. I have friends who do that all the time.. Don't worry about her.. maybe she is just one of them .. Good luck., you will find someone who deserves you .
2007-11-15 20:50:22 · answer #6 · answered by gonecrzy70 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe she has something else going on like a boyfriend/buddy that she doesn't want to see random numbers on her cell phone.
anyway. it was just 1 girl....... there are hundreds of them out there I think.
she could just be paving a way, you know. not wanting to jump into bed (or even give you the idea that you could do that) on first contact.
at least it doesn't sound like you got a drink thrown in your face....... I'd stay friends and try again.
me.... 31 and getting back into the scene after a bad relationship.... remind me to listen to my own advice when I get on the "floor" as you are.
2007-11-15 20:51:38 · answer #7 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She didnt mean to imply that There are alot of freaks in the world I dont give my number out right away either I live alone its not safe but it doesnt mean she dont like you or she could just be a ***** lol
2007-11-15 20:50:20 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa G 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well maybe after hanging around you she didn't think you were her type. Or she might have just gotten out of a relationship and wasn't ready for a new one yet. it does seem kind of rude to reject you like that but it she could of always said something worse and thats got to mean something!!
hope i helped :))
2007-11-15 20:51:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not all women, jsut some seem to be a little more full of themselves that others, maybe shes already seeing someone and didnt want to break it to you because maybe shethought you were cute. Everything is very complicated in a womans life - we never really know what or who we want. we want to keep our options open if you know what i mean.
2007-11-15 20:50:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋