that men like a challenge? there's a guy that has been eyeing me for some time now, but he always has girls throwing themselves all over him, and i dont want to be like them. and i think this is part of what makes me appealing to him, i dont know :/
but will he ever give up? i dont want to be all up in his face super flirty to him, but i dont want him to 'move on' either, since he IS kinda cute :)
any tips on what i should do?
2007-11-15 12:34:23 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definitely a true statement for some men and women. If he is into a challenge, you need to give him a little tid bit of your interest then pull back,make him wonder is she or isn't she. If he likes you he will pursue you for the chase. But like most of these guys, once he has you, he'll be on the next challenge.
2007-11-15 12:50:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont be afraid to let him know you're interested. He may be used to women throwing themselves at him, so your play it cool act may be hard for him to pick up on. Don't be afraid to flirt a little, ask him what he's doing on the weekends, etc. Coming from a guy who likes a challenge, I generally go for the women who can keep eye contact with me, as oposed to the ones who are overlly flirtatious. Hope this helps
2007-11-15 20:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Sam B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i like to think I'm a man, and no not all men want challenges...that to me means games..is it the game that's making you excited or really him...by that i mean do you want him to beg you or drool all over you.. i personally hate the games..i love when that special woman can just be normal and treat me like i treat her..the respect not to play with someones emotions...that's baadd juju...baadd karma..what goes around..i think if a girl really likes a guy, she should walk up to him and just talk..don't drool, but just talk...no games..just talk...maybe even..ask him out..(this is 2007) it tis normal now..watch out for the games he might find someone willing to just walk up to him and be new, fresh funky..and ask him out...all the while being normal...try it..it works..it has worked on me in the past..!
2007-11-15 20:46:26 · answer #3 · answered by rogo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are right. men and women are alike in this way. there has to be some mystery there. that is probably what he likes about you. he will come around if he really is interested.
2007-11-15 20:39:42 · answer #4 · answered by cathyann83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys like a challenge.
Just smile and walk by...let him do the rest.
2007-11-15 20:39:13 · answer #5 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Flirt a little bit. don't body press him like everyone else has.
2007-11-15 20:37:56 · answer #6 · answered by DuaL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋