i never thought that i was ugly but it seems like NO guys are interested in me at my school. i was just wonderin if it was my looks.
2007-11-15 12:33:19 · 22 answers · asked by i love Link Larkin! 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
OHG, this question is coming from someone who calls herself "glamgirl32?" Congratulations, you must be a very rare and most definitely, a true blonde
2007-11-15 12:47:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Some guys do and some guys don't. If you feel attractive then you are attractive. Because your eyes light up, you have a smile and a natural glow. Personality has a lot to do with your looks as well. Some girls can be a real model beauty until their personality shines through. And some girls can be a "Plain Jane" but their personality makes up for it. Try to be as attractive as you feel. Be friendly, out going and pleasant around other people. A smile will go a lot further than a frown. So keep your pretty smile, think of others feelings besides your own, give compliments where compliments are due, wish people around you a very good day, and really mean it when you say it. :)
2007-11-15 12:43:28 · answer #2 · answered by Vida 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a picture of yourself that we men could see. Na I'll take you at your word. You are probably intimidating them. A tall blue eyed blond is perfection right there for a lot of guy's but your looks and height are making them feel inferior to you. They figure you are unapproachable, that you are looking for a tall blonde guy and they don't feel they measure up to your standards. There are lots of actresses that can't get dates because they are 'too good looking 'and besides they would have a famous guy dating them when in truth they are sitting home alone doesn't help much but that is a problem that you might have to do some inviting of your own.
2007-11-15 12:56:24 · answer #3 · answered by redd headd 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
So far so good, unless you've got three eyes, gappy teeth and a huge nose! I'm sure you havent--it's often the case, especially at school age, that the fellas fancy you but are a bit scared of doing anything about it as they feel that they will be rejected. I think you know full well that blokes like tall, leggy, blue eyed blondes, just ask Rod Stewart, but then he and most other blokes like any woman they can get.
2007-11-15 12:40:10 · answer #4 · answered by keefbeef 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is more to it than that. You seem to have some desirable traits but are you friendly, do you make eye contact, do you flirt a little with someone you are interested in or are you aloof. Shyness can come off as being smug or self-absorbed unfortunately so watch out for that. Have you asked some of your girlfriends what they think? That is where I would start unless you have some guy friends and get their honest opinion.
2007-11-15 12:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by Jim J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends for guys. Some guys like brunettes others blondes. Some guys like curvy and others like thin. Guys are impossible to read at times. It isn't right to judge by looks alone. Sometimes its the personality. Are you shy around them or are you flirty? Maybe they feel somewhat intimadated around you since you would be considered "attractive". I don't really don't know what to tell you, but you shoudn't dwell on it. If you feel confident, they will know and that's probably one of the most attractive attributes we, as women, can have.
2007-11-15 12:41:24 · answer #6 · answered by sandboxjill2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From my experience being a guy - most guys are attracted to blonde haired girls...well at least I am. Maybe what you can do is show interest in the guys rather than waiting around for guys to show interest in you. Go and introduce yourself to a guy you're attracted to and show interest in his life. I know I like girls who do that. Just take it slow and don't overwhelm him with your interest. I think everyone wants to feel like they're important, would'nt you agree??? All the best :)
2007-11-15 12:41:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well for one thing boys don't like there girls to be taller than them something having to do about how their friends will act aroudn them. But a real man liek me will always want to go out and enjoy a day with a tall beautiful woman liek yourself. SO want to caht with a real man just IM me anytime.
2007-11-15 12:43:46 · answer #8 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So far all you have told me about is your looks. There is more to it than looks alone. Your personality has a lot to do with it as well. How you carry yourself and how you are within is just as important as whats on the outside. Remember, beauty comes from the inside out.
2007-11-15 12:39:32 · answer #9 · answered by doctor love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but the blonde hair blue eyes thing is SOOOOOOOOO played out. There was a time when you didn't have these traits you did NOT get into modeling. People like freshness, change, diversity and America has played the blondes out to DEATH.
2007-11-15 12:37:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
don;t worry
be yourself as lame as that sounds
you will find a guy who likes you
don't push people to like you by being over flirting that is a turn off
and its not always your outward appearance
i was patient and met my best friend/boyfriend who i have been dating a year and a half now and couldn;t be happier
where when i pushed for relationships before i met guys who i wasn't that connected to and they only lasted for a couple weeks
2007-11-15 12:39:02 · answer #11 · answered by makeyourselfsick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋