i used to date a guy a while ago. i really liked him and he liked me. well the truth is, he really didn't have a good upbringing.he didn't finish high school and he always did wrong things in the streets to survive. everyone, especially my mom and friends thinks he's a loser. they don't think he has potential and can do anything for me.which truth of the matter is, he can't. im in college right now and they think i can do so much better. what im getting to is that im in love with him. i really care about him and want to see him do better.he has told me so many things about his past till i understand him.my mom always say negative things about him and she tries to encourage me to leave him alone.that's why we broke up in the beginning.he wants to b back wit me n i want to b back with him but will i b makin a fool out of myself. im 20,should i care what people are say about me n him.should my mom opinions matter? should i jus leave him alone and try n do better? what should i do?
2007-11-15 12:32:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he even knows how to satisfy me. i know dats not all what matters but it plays a role too. i actually cried over this guy when we broke up. am i going crazy? is it wrong for me to want to do for someone who has never had anything. i jus don't judge a book's by it's cover.
2007-11-15 12:37:58 · update #1
You love him enough to even think about him as a potential lover.
If he loves you as much as you love him then tell him to make something of his life. Support him. And if that turns out good. Then all is good.
2007-11-15 12:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by thepenpal 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe you should ask this question of Dr. Phil or Judge Judy . They both would tell you to hitch your wagon to a rising star, not a loser. If a person had character he would not blame upbringing, he wouldn't do wrong things, he wouldn't have dropped out of school, he would be trying to improve himself. This guy is pushing all your right buttons. What it is , is a snow job, pure and simple and you don't need to be a psychologist to figure that out. Beware!! Good Luck !!
2007-11-15 20:54:49 · answer #2 · answered by googie 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
This guy is going to bring a lot of heartache and pain into your life!
Listen to you Mom because this time, she's telling you from experience. Find a guy in college like you are and you'll do much better financially and emotionally in your relationships down the road.
2007-11-15 20:38:59 · answer #3 · answered by annazzz1966 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
guess you'd like me to say ok,but i'm not,just from readin your question an explaining it,i tend to feel a little diffrent,not sure you love him as much as you feel sorry for him,if the guy is that good an smart,get him to get a ged,he can go to college online an still work,if that is,he cares for you that much.
2007-11-15 20:46:40 · answer #4 · answered by THE"IS" 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it should not matter what anyone thinks. if you truley love him be with him. let people say what they want to say. and you cant help who you love. so be with who you love. thats all i can say!!! good luck.
2007-11-15 20:52:17 · answer #5 · answered by tommysgurl_4502214 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋