I try to keep my calm in most situations at work. Basically "never let them see you sweat". A co-worker sent me an email that maybe on any other day would have been fine. But not today. It's been a bad week and I when I read her blow off email. I let my temper get the better of me. However what I said was true, but I didn't have to say it that way. What should I do?
2007-11-15 12:29:58 · 21 answers · asked by Ohio Girl 1 in Business & Finance ➔ Careers & Employment ➔ Administrative and Office Support
I think you should tell her that what you said was completely true, but you think the way you said it was wrong, and you want to apologize for that. Make sure you explain to her why you got mad and why you said the things you said, but, tell her that you're sorry about the way you said it.
2007-11-15 12:36:24 · answer #1 · answered by Sikadakram 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel bad about the way you reacted, then apologize to your co-worker. Apologize only for what you feel bad about. Do not mention that you believe what you said was true. That is not what you are apologizing for. Emphasizing that you still think what you said is true will only aggravate the situation instead of helping it.
2007-11-15 17:40:11 · answer #2 · answered by fuzmaniac 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go talk to her one on one. Tell her that you were on your off day and you apologize for what you said. Since you are on the subject, ask her if she doesn't mind telling you of why she sent that email. Keep an open mind and an open communication.
2007-11-16 13:57:57 · answer #3 · answered by Caitlyn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologize and say what you said here. Everyone has a bad day. Take the responsibility and apologize. Tomorrow is another day.
2007-11-16 00:35:48 · answer #4 · answered by Tellin' U Da Truth! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You said your piece. Don't regret it. They probably had it coming. I'm also from the "never let them see you sweat" mentality but we are both human and we are all allowed to have a bad day now and then, it happens.
You could try to meet them up for lunch and apologize for your behavior. I would just let it go.
2007-11-15 13:40:03 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettboca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must humbly apologize. This is someone you have to work with and if you let things be then everyday will be painful. You are acting completely normal, not apologizing is what the typical reaction would be. So by saying you are sorry, you will be showing yourself to be extraordinary.
2007-11-15 12:40:55 · answer #6 · answered by Bug 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you were a bit snarky about it then it's always best to apologize, especially if it was out of character for you. Everyone is entitled to their bad days and bad moods, it's whether or not you own up to it that describes your character as a person. She will probably be understanding, and if not then you have done all you could.
2007-11-15 12:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by Leizl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're sorry for your response to her, tell her. Tell her that you were having a bad week and you didn't want to express or take out your anger on her.
Depending upon what was said, I"m sure she'll be fine with your apoliogy.
2007-11-15 17:28:41 · answer #8 · answered by Cizzy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them calmly let them know that while you stand behind what you said you regret the manner in which you said it and if they are willing talk it out to ensure you don't "blow up" with them again.
2007-11-15 12:35:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize let her know you were having a bad week and you would of blow up at the cat if it looked at you wrong(lol)
2007-11-15 12:33:42 · answer #10 · answered by C 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋