I'm going to keep this as short as possible. My ex broke up with 2 months ago while still having feelings for me. We stayed friends and he talked to me everyday for a month. We still hung out at parties with our mutual friends. It got to a point where a couple times I said I couldnt handle this and I was miserable. Finally I made a comment about some girl he works with that knew about our break up before me that he cares more about her although I know deep down he doesnt care about her at all and he finds her very unattractive. Thats what set him off the cut contact with me.
Its been a month and up until that incident he really wanted to try to make us work. We just have a really good connection. We're the idiots who can sit around and do nothing and its fun. He always told me how happy I made him and he could be himself with me. I think I hurt him a lot with my comment. We havent talked in a month. Ive seen him randomly at the mall where he works but I dont make eye contact and my
2007-11-15 12:26:21 · 6 answers · asked by Melissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
friends say he stares at me. I miss him, I feel absolutely awful and I want the friendship back? What do I do? I fear he hates me.
2007-11-15 12:26:57 · update #1
I know I hurt him and in the past month ive though ALOT and leveled out my feelings so im not so intense
2007-11-15 12:31:26 · update #2
you guys are right and the best advice ive gotten so far =)
2007-11-15 12:32:43 · update #3
truthfully, talk to him.
i had the same thing with my ex, i talked to him were all good now. we fought for a while on what happened, but now were all good, so just talk to him.
2007-11-15 12:31:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps one of the problems in " Singles and Dating" category is yada da da yada da da. You go on and on ending up saying nothing. Is this a sign of immaturity or self indulgence, or selfishness? The internet has some admirable features but does carry a lot of " tripe"
2007-11-15 20:35:32 · answer #2 · answered by googie 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i dont think he hates you, so dont worry about that. i feel you could give him a second chance, but be carefull. you might just be missing having a bf, and it might not be him, so if it doesnt work out with him, dont worry, you'll find someone soon!!
2007-11-15 20:31:27 · answer #3 · answered by book worm 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the two of you need to have a serious and honest conversation, ask him to meet you somewhere or call him and arrange a face to face meeting, get it out so you both know where you stand.
2007-11-15 20:30:46 · answer #4 · answered by deejayspop 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
okay I am 21 and this **** is too childish, just go up to him and tell him what's up, but if he is a jerk with you be like "**** life goes on" and maybe you do feel bad, but just do that and once he talks to you or is a jerk, you'll feel much better, TRUST ME YOU WILL
2007-11-15 20:31:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just have to apoligize. you probabaly hurt him badly with your comment adn it might take him awhile to heal from that, but you have to be willing to take the first step and ask for forgiveness and tell him that you still care about him.
2007-11-15 20:30:46 · answer #6 · answered by shaped 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋