ok so i have been with this guy for 2 months now and i really honestly love him and i believe he loves me too but heres the problem. he spends way to much time with his best friend. i mean i'm fine with that but we have the same lunch together and he doesnt want to sit with me because of his best friend. am i worrying over nothing or should i say something. its just sometimes they hug and it disturbs me and i already asked him if he was gay and he's not so what do i do?
2007-11-15 12:02:14 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the problem is he is a guy who he's hugging and its never just me and him anymore. its always us three. i don't think we have spent one second together without his best friend
2007-11-15 12:18:07 · update #1
OMG hunny, grow up. One just bc he hangs out with his best friend and they sometimes hug, does not mean he is gay. Two if you really love this guy, you are making a huge mistake by trying to get between him and his friend. Three if he is so in love with you, he would include you with his friends. I think you are young and have an awful lot to learn about relationships. You do your thang and let him do his. He will either respect and like you more for it or it will get his attention that you aren't hanging around so much. If he really likes you, when he realizes you arent waiting around on him, he'll come running. Goodluck and keep an open mind.
2007-11-15 12:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel! but me and my bf have been together for 6 months. I personally think you should have a talk about this. Because if you really love him, your gonna want this relationship to work right?
Relationships are built off of communicating and friendship. Trust,... is earned. You should really talk about it. If he says something you don't like, or does something you don't like, tell him your feelings. you need to communicate. And if he really wants to make this work out, he will change for you. not 100% all for you.... but he will.
Good luck!
2007-11-15 20:09:21 · answer #2 · answered by pear~bear 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont get paranoid..remember they've been best of friends before he courted you or even before you two officially on..there is no difference between guy bestfriends and girl bestfriends..they were just too close together..just keep on believing that your bf loves you and he is honest with you..just get worry if didnt show you or tell you that they seeing each other..
2007-11-15 20:11:04 · answer #3 · answered by louise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You leave him alone and let him have friends...
Do you hug your friends? Do people accuse you of being gay because of it?
Learn to share your boyfriend. If you don't he won't be your boyfriend for long. He will feel like you are trying to isolate him just for yourself.
2007-11-15 20:06:24 · answer #4 · answered by kimison_au 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Let him be with his friend - he was in your bf's life before you. If you start making demands he'll leave you quicker than a New York minute
2007-11-15 20:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
id slap a h o e
2007-11-15 20:05:32 · answer #6 · answered by GANGSTA 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋