me and my girl have been dating for 3 years. It is pretty serious. I want to have sex with her, but I dont know if she feels the same way. Should I ask her? Or should I just do it? Any tips on starting?
2007-11-15 11:44:00 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her first. If you have been going out for 3 years you should be able to talk about serious things like this. Say she doens't want to have sex and you force her, then that can ruin your awesome relationship. Communication is key.
2007-11-15 11:48:23 · answer #1 · answered by dont worry be happy :) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok 3 yrs is s good amount of time to wait to have sex, Show her how much you love her and that you want to take it to the next step If anything you should be talking to HER not looking for answers on yahoo.
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Or you can do something really really romantic in the house/or apartment for her if you guys live together.
Like have a trail of roses leading to the bed room with candles everywhere. Really good incense or perfume sprayed everywhere. Before she follows the trail of roses or flower petals have a note with like a poem or something about how long yall relationship has gone on how much you love her and stuff. The lights should be off in the place but lit enough that she can find her way around. As cliche as this sounds this would certainly put a huge smile on her face.
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YOu can take her out somewhere or do something for her that would really mean the world to her.
2007-11-15 21:05:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
damn man thats along time 2 wait. You could try and hint around or just mention the topic of sex and see how she reacts. But if it's easier for you ,just talk to her about it and see how she feels. Regardless make sure you guys use protection. Goddluck bro
2007-11-16 11:07:22 · answer #3 · answered by walk on water 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whatever you do be sure to use protection
2007-11-15 19:48:41 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger by the Tail 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋