This might be a silly question, but lately if been attraction some crazy attention from guys and it's scaring me. First off, they come across as friendly people who are just interested in a convo or friendhship, and before i know it they are asking for more like sex or a relationship. They all said pretty much the same things like i am so different and that women like me are hard to find and that they want to hold on to me becasue they;ll regret loosing something so good. It's annoying because i am new to dating and romantic relationships and i just want to find someone special to love me but this is crazy. I dunno if its just my arua or if they see a gap or dent in my character like naitivty or innocence...because i am a virgin and i am very much new to dating but im 19 and that old. But im confused.
2007-11-15 11:24:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Take SEX out of the equation - and do it up front - let them know you are only looking for "friends" - regardless if the guys are 15 or 50 most of us are looking to have sex with you - I'm sorry - but it is true - the reality, if they are "really sooo different" once you take the chance of SEX out of the equation - only the good ones will just hang out.
Happy hunting - wink!
2007-11-15 11:31:35 · answer #1 · answered by home_body_kev 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he has not asked you out yet he definitely dont want anything serious with you, im spanish but I know how brazilians are I have brazilian friends and we have things in common. so id say hes not interested in having a seeious relationship with you, hes just having fun living life and if he calls you "princess" is because he feels something for you but not enough to ask you out. Is kind of confusing because he calls you princess tho maybe hes just waiting for the right moment to ask you out! You should have a conversation with him about how you both feel about eachother! Good luck*
2016-05-23 08:08:36 · answer #2 · answered by diann 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we men can smell virginity ,innocence and naitivty like animals can smell fear.
enjoy the hunt. let them chase you.
dont believe any thing they say about you eyes, or hair, or being special, it is all lies designed to get you into bed.
hold out for the best of the pack.
you will have to go through a lot of creeps before you meet one that is any good.
and, men want sex, women want love and relationships, hence the problem.
2007-11-15 11:32:26 · answer #3 · answered by Jr. is angry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would suggest its not a character flaw or or virginity they are attracted you --- its your personality ---- so just be aware enjoy the company and see if someone comes along and excites your interest ---- best wishes
2007-11-15 11:31:05 · answer #4 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋