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At times she refuses to talk, and other times she meows or makes other animal noises. I think she is nervous... any ideas?

2007-11-15 11:17:21 · 12 answers · asked by hmw525 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting Grade-Schooler

12 answers

Please do not panic when I suggest this. Some of this behavior is totally normal, but if you're really concerned.... I am by no means expert on anything, but I am a parent of an autistic child, and she displays some similar behavior. My daughter will often make a whining noise or something like a meow (we have cats) instead of answering a question. She'll often use a squeeky high pitched voice in conversation, although she does have control over it, she may/may not realize it when she starts doing it.I don't know if some of this is done on purpose or like an automatic response. She'll seemingly ignore people even when they are directly in front of her asking a question. She sometimes jumps and 'flaps' her arms when excited. If your child is showing any of these behaviors, ask her school's psychologist to observe her. Some of this kind of stuff is normal, and some is not. It really takes someone with training to ID a problem. Autism, Aspberger's syndrome, or any of the other disorders in that spectrum are treatable. My daughter is in the 3rd grade, with all the other kids her age, getting good grades, and has lots of friends. Get her looked at, but don't freak out. You guys will be alright. Good luck!!

2007-11-15 11:36:16 · answer #1 · answered by michaelsmaniacal 5 · 0 0

ok those people without youngsters are not going to furnish you a in the present day answer. they're going to inform you to drop her off with Mr. T or positioned her in the nook, or holiday, or beat her with a belt or notwithstanding. right this is my situation, my 5 three hundred and sixty 5 days previous son does the real same element. right here is what I narrowed all of it the way down to. They spent a lot of their existence spoiled by using the two grandma or somebody. They understand that they are able to get what they % in the event that they push problematic sufficient for it. First that concept should be deserted of their ideas. 2nd, they're competing on your interest or someones interest. they're going to settle for interest on any point. in case your the form of parent who looks at a image drawn by using your newborn and say, "oh thats super honey," after which they get misplaced, that did no longer provide them the satisfaction that they have been searching for. besides the undeniable fact that in the event that they positioned a hatchet in the process the door, than you will for sure yell after which they have been given your interest. See your newborn has found out the thank you to get you to drop each and every little thing and concentration on them. Its no longer the suited suited way yet she did. All she has to do is be undesirable, and you will respond. right this is the answer, (its working so a procedures) do no longer respond precise away. enable them to flee with something for in elementary terms a touch 5-10 minutes (except an emergency) in order that as that they understand that your interest can't be prompted by using this. additionally, and maximum severe, permit your daughter understand that she does not would desire to be undesirable to get your interest. you will get to her while she asks. Now, as a substitute of punishments by way of fact its what they assume. Set out timetables. as an occasion, permit her understand that at 3pm she will have some cookies and milk (or her prominent snack). besides the undeniable fact that if she tries to flush the cat or something between the time you instructed her this and the time you positioned out a snack than you tell her that the cookies are no further an option and a sleep is as against it. See corners, and time outs on no account worked. the youngster expects this, so initiate dreaming up new mindset. stable good fortune... desire it extremely works..

2017-01-05 14:11:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Like the previous poster said, as long as she does have normal verbal skills some of the time, it's probably fine. Most kids go through a weird animal phase.
If you want her to stop, just blatantly ignore her whenever she starts doing it. Without the extra attention, she will likely move onto more productive ways of communicating.

2007-11-15 11:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Marge 2 · 0 0

Totally normal. At age three through young adolescence children are finding their own personalities. They manifest them usually in animals which they are curious about learning and engaging with; Also at your child age pushing the envelope and seeing how far they can express ideas is part of development. In that situation as long as it isn't harmful or hurtful things they are saying go a long with it. You'll be surprised at their creativeness and if you don't scorn them, unless the are being rude to others or to you they are likely to not make much of it. Growin pattern of behavior.

2007-11-15 11:26:04 · answer #4 · answered by Angel of Mercury 3 · 0 0

Probably shy or nervous.

Let her get used to new people at her own pace. Do not force her or make fun of her,that just makes it worse.

Most kids outgrow this with time. Some people are always skittish around people they do not know. If she does not outgrown it, you can teach her appropriate ways to deal with her shyness as she gets older.

2007-11-15 11:23:19 · answer #5 · answered by LORI P 3 · 0 0

I think its okay as long as she does talk like a normal kid around family at least, or friends. I used to act like a dog everywhere i went. I grew out of it. I also used to moo. If she doesn't before long,you may want to talk to some one about it for advice.

2007-11-15 11:22:21 · answer #6 · answered by cordlesshamilton 4 · 0 0

She's not nervous, she's PRETENDING, she excercising her imagination. When my daughter did this I would pat her on the head and say "nice kitty" or "good puppy" and not anaylze it because it doesn't need to be analyzed. Studies have proven that children who are allowed to cultivate their imaginations grow up to more intelligent adults. Look at Stephen Hawking...Where would he (and technology) be today without HIS imagination?

2007-11-15 21:46:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

just explain to her that there are appropriate times to do those silly noises and there are time there are not.
Kids do things like that, it gets attention, and thety are not sure what to say, sometimes its fear of giving the wrong answer,
i wuoldn't stress to much, haven't heard a 15yr old doing that lol so she will grow out of it

2007-11-15 11:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

haha thats hilarious!! my friend still does that and shes 13. dont worry shell get over it!!

2007-11-15 11:25:03 · answer #9 · answered by LICIOUSSSS 2 · 2 0

It depends, is your six year old a cat or a human?

2007-11-15 11:24:35 · answer #10 · answered by ZCT 7 · 1 1

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