It was so sad! After school a lot of kids followed the 2 girls getting into a fight. It was a REALLY skinny girl vs a really chubby girl. It wasn't a fair fight. The big girl through the first swing and got her on the ground and started to ground and pound.
The skinny girl is my friend. I felt soooooo bad, it was so sad! It gives me the chill now just thinking about it!
Sad part is, I recorded it ALL. Should I tell the office about it? I just feel a whole bunch of guilt for recording it..
I have the footage though. Is that going to get me in trouble?
2007-11-15 10:28:59 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Grade-Schooler
I want to tell someone I trust.
It was unnecessary & gross.
The girl should have stopped after the first or second punch but no she kept grounding and pounding on her!
Man. I want the girl that took it too far to get in trouble.
2007-11-15 10:48:51 · update #1
The admins are already on to it. We just went so far they stopped following us.
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2007-11-15 10:52:31 · update #2
You should actually take your recording to the police. The girl that threw the first punch will have charges brought against her.
2007-11-15 10:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweet_sensation775 3 · 6⤊ 2⤋
First thing, show the evidence to your parents. They may encurage you more to go to the office on Monday. Take the Video, and Evidence to the office, right when you get into school so you can avoid any other interruptions. The principal should then call down the "skinny" girl, and the "chubby" girl. The principal should then have all 3 of you down in the office discussing the matter. The principal will then discuss the matter mostly with your friend, and the chubby girl. The principal will likely suspend the chubby girl. If, in fact, that your friends parents want to press charges againts the chubby girl, then that would be the matter of situation. (I would first then show your friends parents the video of the fight), most likely the chubby girl will get suspended, and go to juvenile hall, or jail, if your parents decide to press chrages. SHOW THE VIDEO. TELL YOUR PARENTS. TELL THE PRINCIPAL. ON MONDAY MORNING GO TO THE OFFICE IMMEDIATLY. This could save your friend from getting into another fight. YOU ARE THE ONE WHO WATCHED THE WHOLE FIGHT! YOU HAVE TO TELL YOUR PARENTS. OR, YOU WILL BECOME ONE THAT WAS JUST SCREAMING "FIGHT, FIGHT!". You have to tell. Good Luck. PS: if your friend is bruised up pretty badly, its another thing to add on to your chances of getting the girl suspended. Probably, her parents already found out about the fight. TELL!
2007-11-16 09:07:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you in, well not exactly, but ive seen fights before, but not really 'unfair' ones. I think its not good that you didn't help your friend, but i can see why! But in this case, you should totally give the video to an official of your school and get that bully outta there! Thats definately what i would do, without a doubt! You'll probably be helping your friend more this way because the bully will be gone for a while. And it anything happens, (its not tattle-taling) talk to a counsolar or principal, b4 anything worse happens. Go tell!
2007-11-15 10:34:50 · answer #3 · answered by info101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look there is no difference between big or small, I've seen a skinny chick whoop a big girl before lmfao It really doesn't matter b/c obviously the 2 girls had a disagreement and they were both willing to fight no matter what came out of it so if you want to be a snitch and get them both in trouble go ahead!
2007-11-15 10:35:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the fact you taped it is not a bad thing it is what you choose to do with it is. Put it on UTube and that makes it wrong. What you need to do is go to the police station and show them. This girl should not get away with it. Do the right thing. Police and principal is who should see it. The world wide web is not the place. It will be flashed around the world and humiliate your friend and make the bully proud of what she did.
I have to ask though why you filmed it and did not try to help your friend....but now you have the chance to help her. Both of you need to go to the police and lay charges. Get your parents together and talk to them and show them first
2007-11-15 10:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hand the tape in theses things can get out of control and the tape some day might get into the wrong hands and make matters worse ,explain to either a teacher or official wht happned whos to say this girl doesnt do it again and cause real harm ,would u like some one to get fotage of you getting hurt and u knew some one has evidence tht may help u ,answer probly is no ,ur conscience will make u do the right thng ,
2007-11-15 10:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by play_girl_1986 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If there is a teacher that you can trust to have a 1-on-1 conversation with about what happened, do that. If not. type down what happened and try and transfer what you recorded to the school. The last part would be to give it to your friend and let her make the decision. Just remember that "she" could bring harm your way without knowing without knowing it.
2007-11-15 10:42:35 · answer #7 · answered by shinstrike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well where I live.. both people get in trouble if they both are hitting. but the person who hit first gets in more trouble. i dont know if you should go to the police or whoever and give them the video so they can see..becaue it wasnt even cool that you recorded it. you should have helped your friend though, especially if it wasnt a fair fight. i would have!
2007-11-15 10:33:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's evidence.
Obviously, neither of them should've been fighting in the first place, so they are both at fault and should be punished(unless one of them provoked the other)
But you really should tell an administrator.
On the other hand, you don't sound like the nicest of friends if you were standing there recording it when you could've told a teacher or something to help your friend
2007-11-15 10:32:57 · answer #9 · answered by A 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it means getting the chubby girl in trouble and helping your friend then yes show it. I doubt you should get in trouble for recording it. People say you should try and help them and stop the bullying but yet many people don't understand how hard it is to actually stop such an event.
2007-11-15 10:32:51 · answer #10 · answered by Undecided 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You should tell them....this wasn't a fair fight and that girl shouldn't be going around getting into fights...and don't worry,you won't get in trouble...they'll probably thank you for your honesty and telling them sooner!
Make the right choice!Have Fun♥
2007-11-15 10:33:36 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋