boyfriend is usingher as an iject because he doesn't support at all of the sportting except for senior night in girls varsity soccer which i was there screaming louder than for his girlfriend . I have support in more ways i made her a CD because i care about her? What do you think i should do? Go ask the girl ? or confront the guy ? Or should fight him ? but he plays football. but i know she'll take my side on this?
2007-11-15 10:06:35 · 5 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell her your feelings and why you would be a great guy for her. But don't make her break up with her bf and don't talk to him about it. She will have to make the decision of what she wants....all you can do is try and prove it to her. Hopefully she keeps it to herself and not share it with others. You sound sweet....I hope she sees that too. Good Luck
2007-11-15 10:12:13 · answer #1 · answered by Yep...Me! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay off for now as she already has a boyfriend. Don't fight him....that's just immature. It really doesn't matter what you or anyone else thinks about the guy, if he treats her well or not. Until she can see it, anything you say is useless. The best thing you can do right now is be her friend and get to know her that way and continue to support her, etc. If she breaks up with the boyfriend and after some healing time, THEN you can ask her out.
2007-11-15 10:12:31 · answer #2 · answered by First Lady 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fighting is never the answer. Just let it go, don't interfere with their relationship. Charm the girl and just talk to her. Let her make the choice if she wants to go with you or stay with her loser unappreciative boyfriend. It seems like you are infatuated with this girl. It can be hard to like a girl that is older than you because usually they are not interested in younger guys.
2007-11-15 10:27:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dang dude, looks like we have the same problem
2007-11-15 10:09:51 · answer #4 · answered by rockbox freak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you act way too insecure, and because of that you don't have a chance with her.
2007-11-15 10:10:16 · answer #5 · answered by dragonbot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋