SEX in a relationship?

Question

ok. well i now that sometime people like to rish into things.
Like, sex. But i was wondering is it possible to find a guy who likes to have fun ( hugging, kissing, be playful if u no what i mean) but not necessarily want sex? Or, does this guy not exist?

i mean OFCOURSE i want to have sex but it might not be right away. I mean i dont want to be a 40 year old virgin but it doesn't mean that we gotta f **ck on the first date either.

Answer 1

It certainly is possible and guys like that do exist.

Bear in mind that most men do want sex, but some are more virtuous because they were raised right, and will love you and put your needs of safety, security, and developing a sound, secure relationship above their needs. These often are not the 19 year-olds with slicky-boy hair you will find at a club, though.

More often than not you will find a more virtuous man through church or perhaps via your parents, or somebody you have known a long time but have never really noticed him before. These guys do exist and often live right in front of you and they just have not called attention to themselves.

Answer 2

Haha, man does this question have me laughing. It's hard to find that kind of guy. Try finding a monk. No but seriously, the male mind works in obvious ways. If you do one thing, their mind will think this will lead to another thing and so on and so forth. Me, I'm actually waiting for marriage before I take that plunge. Go ahead to people who want to make fun of me, but I believe it's better to wait for the person you promised to spend the rest of your life with. I don't know if you're going to find that guy, but remember, you hold the keys to the gate that the guy is trying to enter. Just keep looking and lock any guy out until you meet that right guy. That's all I got to say.

Answer 3

I am kinda that guy except I don't do the hugging or kissing either. I am playful, but not the "if you know what I'm talking about" kind of playfulness. I don't have sex either, if you haven't already figured that one out.

Answer 4

This guy does not exist, every guy wants to have sex, but there is the guy that will wait. My current boyfriend and I waited as long as we could (it was not that long) but, if he or I wanted to wait longer we would have. There are guys that will hug, kiss, and cuddle out there without having sex, but just because they are not having it does not mean they are not thinking about it, just find the one who will wait for you.

Answer 5

I am a guy and I can tell you that THAT guy does not exist !!! The rule says that we think about it "... every 6 seconds" so if your relationhsip with a guy lasts more than 6 secs the likelihood is that any guy would be dying to take you to bed asap. Thankfully, females put the brakes on it...

Answer 6

I think all guys are going to eventually want sex, and I think all girls will too. Just be firm in your beliefs - "I'm open to hugging and kissing, but sex is off limits". The right guy will stick around.

Answer 7

yes. eventually it will lead to sex but there are some people who think of things other than that. you can have a relationship without sex it just takes commitment from the both of you.

Answer 8

Of course this guy exists.....just be more selective, and wait for the right person to come along. Don't settle.

Answer 9

Yes there is a guy. If that guy really loves you and respects you as his girl then he will always understand, as long as you satisfy him (meaning, other ways other than sex) then it would be ok and he would be happy.

Answer 10

I think females make sex to readily available for guys today. However, the extremely random few that are strong enough to hold back deserve mad props for it.