i have never had a sex and never had a g,f , my best mate told me that she has had it , i thought she was a virgin because she told me once that she almost done it once but now she done it with annother b,f but thats made me think about it what is wrong with me
2007-11-15 09:34:07 · 26 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im 19 , 20 in jan , my m8 just truned 19 proberly done it when she was 18
2007-11-15 09:45:39 · update #1
people were annoying me and said at least i have had sex thats what made me think that
2007-11-15 09:48:16 · update #2
Guess what! I never even had my first kiss until about a year ago (and I'm twenty). And my boyfriend was 27 before he lost his virginity.
There's no set 'age' by which you should have had sex. So comparing yourself to others isn't going to be doing you any good. If your friends make fun of you for it, oh well. They are you friends; it's what they do.
Don't rush things. I'm not going to give you 'wait until you're ready' speech because you sound ready. But make sure you are ready because YOU want to, not because you feel 'behind' or something.
Don't rush it. It'll happen when it does.
As for getting a girlfriend: go to different clubs or libraries, whatever your interest, I assure you, there's a girl out there somewhere for you.
Good luck and don't fret. Plus, sex isn't all magical as movies make it to be. Nor is it always successful as porns make it out to be. It's fun, but not really something to worry over.
2007-11-15 10:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by Smo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Loads of my mates have done it and they are 16. My cousin is due to give birth on the 20th December and shes 16 too! Sex is kinda over rated, you should be proud you rare still a virgin, theres nothing to be ashamed of! It just shows you respect yourself and don't just want to loose it for the sake of it.
You will get a girlfriend soon too, i promise (= ..Do you go out much? You should try buying a girl a drink in a club or something, or if clubs aren't your thing try meeting a girl at the library or the gym or even somewhere as random as a supermarket! If you have no look, maybe your just in the wrong places at the wrong time. You could try getting your friend to hook you up with someone!
2007-11-15 09:51:52 · answer #2 · answered by Yorkshire Gurlie ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing is wrong with you. Lots of people choose not to have sex and that's just fine. STOP thinking something is wrong with you! Everybody does not need to have sex. I've known a lot of people who have had sex and really regretted it. More and more people are choosing not to have sex for good reasons: health safety issues, moral and religious integrity, waiting for the right person and the right timing. Don't be in a rush to do something just because it seems like everybody else is doing it. That's a major mistake that you will live to regret.
2007-11-15 09:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by g8orgrrrl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you :)
The focus of your life should not be sex, it is a bi-product of a happy relationship and meeting the right person. Do not rush into things with anyone and do not compare yourself with others :)
The chances are you will meet someone nice and compatible with who you are, then the relationship can progress from there but the focus should not be having sex as this not only cheapens the relationship but also hurts your partner.
Relax and enjoy life as it comes and you will meet people.
2007-11-15 09:44:16 · answer #4 · answered by Erebus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you. You sound quite young so relax. It's not a race. Being selective about who you share this very special event with is more important than a timeline. Many young people say they have when they haven't to appear cooler. Don't feel pressured into something you are not ready for.
2007-11-15 09:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by fitmama55 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ever measure yourself, your life choices, your morality by Society's Standards.
You are blessed to still be a virgin - remain so, and present yourself to your wife on your wedding day. Virginity only comes once, and it should be appreciated, respected, honored, and offered only once - to the mate of your life!
Chill. You're a good man. No need to be upset over this. Your virginity is your Own Darn Business. No one elses business. Period.
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2007-11-15 09:39:53 · answer #6 · answered by YRofTexas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing is wrong with you. By the sounds of it, you are too young to have sex anyway. It is important for you to find a girl that you are in a committed relationship with and trust.
2007-11-15 09:37:51 · answer #7 · answered by juneejunebug 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might have to get out a little more. Try and meet new people. Thats the best thing i can say. Try not to get discouraged your time will come when its right.
2007-11-15 09:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by poshbaby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly dont worry about it.
You'll find a cool chick soon promise, there's someone for everyone out there, even you. And dont just rush into things because others have, take it easy and just go for it when you feel reasy etc.
Chin up chuck.
2007-11-15 09:37:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it--you can only lose your virginity once, so you want it to be special!
Wait until someone comes along that you really love--sex is a hundred times better when you love your partner.
2007-11-15 09:37:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋