I cheated on my BF
with my ex..
I feel real bad i feel like a ho
what do i do should i tell my bf what i did or do i keep it to myself..
i am such a bad person he didnt deserve it what do i do ?
2007-11-15 09:29:27 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ummm dont tell him yet..
2007-11-15 09:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by iloveyou 3 · 1⤊ 3⤋
It would be better for you to end your relationship with the current BF for you are not ready to give up your feeling for your EX. If there was any respect on both your parts for the others that are in your life then you would not be in the situation that is present now. If you choose to lie as those on the panel have suggested then you will have to have a good memory, because this deceit will come to haunt you and it will be known that you have cheated on person and they will find out one way or another. Be honest with the person and let them know what you have done. Remember if this was to happen to you the feelings that would arise in you over this. Give this person time to come to grips with what you have done.
2007-11-15 09:49:30 · answer #2 · answered by laurie o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really up to you if you want to tell him or not. You know what the right thing to do is. If I were you I would probably tell him...it's going to clear your conscience and you'll either be able to move on with him, if he forgives you, or you'll move on without him and start a new life. What's the worst that can happpen anyway?!
Either way you look at it it was wrong, but what's done is done and you can only move on from here.
Unfortunatley I cheated on a man and I never said anything. It did eat at my conscience and eventually the relationship didn't work out because I wasn't being honest with that person or myself.
Good luck!
2007-11-15 09:36:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll get over it, it may not seem like it now but you will. Unless you plan on sleeping with the ex again, I wouldn't bother telling the current bf. There is no point and it will only cause pain.
Hey, anyway, its not really cheating, you've already slept with the ex, so it's not like it was anyone new!!
2007-11-15 09:34:12 · answer #4 · answered by davesonlineaccount1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay first before you do anything tell your ex that it's over and you don't want to see him anymore make sure that there is no more attraction between the two of you ( meaning you and your ex) then it it is up to you whether or not you tell your bf honesty is the best policy but if u feel like it would ruin your relationship then i wouldn't. but if you really care about i would tell him and say you will nevwr do it again and you are real ss=ryy. if he doesn't forgive you then you should have thought of that before you cheated with your ex
2007-11-15 09:35:16 · answer #5 · answered by colrz123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u r feeling bad abt it, no point teling him.
Keep it to urself, and the fact is, a women is a well of secrets, so if u tell him, he is gona jus imagine it and feel sick..so its better leave it aside and something which has happened cant b taken back..so move on in life and never repeat antythin like that agn.
2007-11-15 09:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Princess3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not going to judge you here but....... shouldn't you have stopped yourself? If the guy is a nice person who has always been there for you, you owe it to him to tell him. Yep, he'll probably break up with you, but the sooner you get it out, the less it will hurt later. There's no point in letting it hide because you don't want him to hear it from someone else. So if it has to be anyone who tells him, let it be you.
2007-11-15 09:33:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how this happened, he has a right to know, if you are serious about you current boyfriend then keep it to yourself and move on, he doesn't want his view of you to be tainted by some mistake, If you think he may hear about it anyway then it would be best to tell him yourself, it will crush him but they always say that it is darkest before dawn, good luck and for god's sake be careful with other peoples feelings.
2007-11-15 09:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Justin G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch! That's about the worst thing to do to someone that I can think of. Best thing is to make your choice and break off the other relationship. Don't say a word and live your life carrying that black spot with you. Maybe the guilt will keep you from doing it again.
2007-11-15 09:33:03 · answer #9 · answered by IRN_Ag 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What does it matter? If you cheated on him you are not that in to him. Tell him and move on. That was a whore thing to do! Next time you can't keep your legs together, break up first. Don't sleep with your boyfriend now unless you tell him, just because you treat your body like an amusement park does not mean he needs all funk you have gotten on you. Grow up!
2007-11-15 09:34:05 · answer #10 · answered by M A 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell him. Let him make the decision on weather or not he would like to continue his relationship with you. You f ucked up now own up to it. At least there would be one thing good he could say about you and that is, you're an honest person.
2007-11-15 09:39:07 · answer #11 · answered by 2good4U 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋