They dated for a short time in high school until he broke up with but they remain friends. It would be a two bedroom apt so the two of us would have our own bedroom. I do trust my boyfriend but I don't really trust her cause shes told me that when shes drunk she hits on him when i asked him about it he did admit one time they kissed while she was drunk but that it was two months before we met. Shes been living out of town now she wants to move back. What should I do?
2007-11-15 09:28:32 · 9 answers · asked by Fatima D 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
seriously most people will tell you it is a bad idea. I'd say it really depends on what kind of bf you think he is. do you feel comfortable about the situation? he admitted that she sat on him when drunk, it was before your existence. there is a reason they are ex-bf and ex-gf cuz they don't work out. their relationship lasted only for a very short time. so, the bond between them is relatively weak right now. however, if they see each other more often, will it change? I don't know.
the serious question is whether you need to rent out the 2nd room to someone else. if you can afford the two bedroom, I'd say no. if you need the extra money, I'd say having a short-term ex of your bf's is better than having some gal he's never dated. cuz new girl is more desirable than the one he didn't like.
2007-11-15 09:45:24 · answer #1 · answered by Carborane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely NOT! That's nuts. And not only is that a bad idea.. I think you might want to look at your boyfriend a little more closely. The fact that he would even put this decision on you to make is selfish. Think about it.. you wouldn't ask him if he would mind letting one of your ex-boyfriends to move in with you guys, would you??
2007-11-15 09:41:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not! Even though it may sound like an okay idea at first, I bet this situation would cause a lot of problemswith you and your boyfriend.
2007-11-15 09:32:09 · answer #3 · answered by ohio.is.for.lovers. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like a recipe for disaster. If your boyfriend thinks it's a good idea, I'd let this girl have him and you look for someone else.
2007-11-15 09:33:24 · answer #4 · answered by curtisports2 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow...I think that moving in with your boyfriend's ex is asking for him to cheat. She'd definatly still got it bad for him. Not to mention that drunken kissing can lead to drunken pelvis bumping. In the end its whatever you're comfortable with.
2007-11-15 09:34:31 · answer #5 · answered by Charlie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DEFINITLEY NOT!!! that probably means he still has feelings for her. but i could be wrong, i dont know the whole situation. if you think there is a slight possibility that he still has a "crush" on her, then don't. but if you think he' s moved on, then it's all good. but you have to make this decision yourself. you be the judge of the case.
Good luck!!!
~Kiki
2007-11-15 09:33:55 · answer #6 · answered by Kiki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You Have got to be out of your mind.
2007-11-15 09:35:08 · answer #7 · answered by cfb193 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound like such a good idea to me.
2007-11-15 09:42:12 · answer #8 · answered by twinkle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
two words HELL NO!!! don't do it.
2007-11-15 09:32:09 · answer #9 · answered by jcusackrules 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋