2007-11-15 08:27:30 · 19 answers · asked by John S2005 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends on who the person is. most of the time i just get mad. occassionally, i get even.
2007-11-15 08:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by me33a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on whether the perpetrator is a friend or not. And what he/she has done.
But to your question - neither would I get mad nor even. More specifically, I do not stay mad long, maybe a few hours. But THEN I do something else. With friends I leave them alone with their deed and thoughts for a long time, perhaps forever. I used to get a lot of revenge, but I do not have the heart for that any more. I've seen too many people, especially women, suffer, and I promised God I would not seek revenge, even if they deserve it. Your heart and conscience will rest better if you let it slide.
If it is not a friend, it's best to let it go as well.
2007-11-15 08:38:04 · answer #2 · answered by Slick98 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do anything, it's called Karma... What goes around comes around. I have been in this situtation a troll did something to me caused huge drama and now she is scrubbing toilets cause she can't get a job anywhere!
2007-11-15 08:35:35 · answer #3 · answered by Can't stand this 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get mad, go over it and move on. Festering and seeking revenge will only hurt you in the long run. When we do good, good is returned to us.
2007-11-15 08:32:41 · answer #4 · answered by zoee_d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I pray for them. I practice compassion and empathy..I don't 'get even' bc it takes too much out of my soul..It's better to "let it go" and walk away. Also, I want to remain a lady at all times, so I don't get into negativity EVER..
2007-11-15 08:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by sablelemarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It kinda depends on what they did! If they did something really aweful, than you should retaliate in a way that you couldn't get pin-pointed on. If it was a catty dumb thing, you should just get over it and it'll be fine =)
2007-11-15 08:32:25 · answer #6 · answered by Maria M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had my 93 year old Italian aunt put a SHMUNGA
(bad curse) on someone.
A year later he was bankrupt, IRS on his case, and business failing.
Did the curse work--or was he such a rat that things caught up with him?
2007-11-15 08:36:46 · answer #7 · answered by Fred F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An elephant never forgets and just remember "Living well is sweet revenge". you need not ever fall down because of someone elses stupidity. Move on--live well --they will notice.
2007-11-15 08:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what it is. I think when you hold a grudge, ultimately the only person you're hurting is yourself. You need to let it go.
2007-11-15 08:31:10 · answer #9 · answered by Alex 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I`m usually planing my revenge even if I know I will not take the revenge :))
2007-11-15 08:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by swash_trak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋