my son has austem when he was at nursery school the kids in there would take toys of him?

Question

and he would hit them ,the school would allways not see the other kids taking toys off him ,he would go into temper tantrums at anything and if you walked away from him he would stop it ,we told this to the school ,so one day he went into one the head teacher treid to pick him up and did her back in by doing that,so she called a meeting telling us she was going to take us to the union about this but we said to why di yoy try and pick him up ,why did not you not just walk away cos you know that works ,

yes i meant that

diss me then i dont give a feck but diss my kids then i will snap on anyone ,and my son is autistic and i have 3 kids,wot is my profile got to do with anything

Answer 1

You should consider putting your son into a SEN nursery, as the people there are trained in how to deal with his behaviour appropriately, and will help him find more effective ways of communicating, such as Makaton. Another advantage of SEN schools is that you boy would recieve a variety of therapies (sensory stimulation, hydrotherapy, speech and language therapy, play therapy & music therapy) inside of the school.

I know many parents want to have their children mainstreamed, but it is much kinder to the child to have them in a SEN school. However, if you are sure that you want your boy to stay in mainstream school, then you should tell the school and education authourites that you want there to be a full time carer with him whilst he's at school (if you are living in the uk this will be free). This will mean that there will be a trained adult helping him at all times.

Answer 2

I have a 3 year old daughter with Autism, so I know what you're going through. They can be tough little boogers to cope with! Thankfully, I was able to get my daughter into a preschool for disabled children. They also accept abled children, but the disabled get the first chance.She gets all of her therapies while there as well. If I were you, I would look into special programs for disabled children. Check into Easter Seals particularly (that's where my daughter goes). I don't have any idea what "take us to the union" means, so I can't offer advice on how to handle that. Just hang in there hon, I've been told by moms of Autistic kids who are now in their 20's that it will get easier. Boy I can't wait.

Answer 3

You should go to the child study team in your area called early intervention and put your son in a school that specialize with children that are autistic. Believe me you are better off going this route. My daughter is a special needs child and that's what I did. It is important to me that my daughter have the best type of care with people that understand her condition and what it is required. The teacher is wrong to treat you this way learn your rights for your state and do not be afraid to voice them. She is not responsible enough to take care of your child I say speak with some @ early intervention in your area. Best of Luck.

Answer 4

If your son is autistic how would you know what is going on at school unless you were there to see it yourself? Kids that are autistic cannot communicate well enough to tell people what is going on, even high functioning autistics have a hard time with this. I am a nanny for a little boy that is autistic and he answers yes to everything.
After reading your last question and your profile I doubt you even have a child, and if your child was truly autistic you would know how to spell it! Quit being a TROLL.

Answer 5

hi, i had the same problem with my little boy , he has quite severe autism with severe learning and behavioural problems, he had to go to nursery as the LEA would not give him a placement at a special school until he had been tested at a mainstream school ( how stupid) even though he had a diagnosis he was very violent towards the teachers and most of the time they could not control him they just used to ring me up and i would have to go and take him home, eventually we got him into a special school and now he has 1 to 1 schooling . you need to keep pushing your health visitors to get him assesed for a special school as unless your school has teachers or teaching assistants who have knowledge of special needs children this problem will only get worse and it will not be helping your son as autistic children need more than anything a stable routine.
get in touch with your health visitor or doctor and explain this to them.

Answer 6

your question isn't posed well...

sounds like your son isn't appropriate for mainstreamed learning at this time- he should be receiving specialized services

Answer 7

Maybe if you can spell better i'll belive it more.

Answer 8

You mean "autism" I assume?

Was there a question in that babble anywhere?