I really want to get a 4.0.
I invite my g/f over to study and it seems that every time I really get into the zone she starts to distract me on purpose. Like she will start rubbing my leg or doing yoga in her panties or something stupid like that. Should I kick her out? But I really like her and think I can study better when she is actually studying. I'm afraid to tell her cuz her friends are really B@#$Cy and will harass me. (you know girls)
2007-11-15 03:07:54 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
studies first dude....when you get the 4.0 and get a killa job you'll have plenty of cash at your new job to get other girls if she leaves you....be selfish when it comes to studies
2007-11-15 03:12:02 · answer #1 · answered by flatfootfred 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
don't study with her.
she obviously has different values than you do with respect to school. I would talk to her about that, and explain that you want her to respect your values in this regard, and you'll spend time with her when you are not studying.
And don't let her or her friends "shame" you into thinking there is anything wrong with a male rebuffing a female's advances when they are at inappropriate times. ( I once had a girlfriend who accused me of being gay anytime I put her off !)
Some girls have such low self esteem that their only sense of self worth comes from being attractive to boys. (and not from, say, working to get good grades!). If that is what she is like, she is apparantly far too shallow for you.
2007-11-15 11:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by Michael M 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
School should be your first priority and if she doesn't respect that then why are you with her homie? First of all the ratio out there for women to men is bananas! I'm sure there is a smarter, better looking girl out there who will appreciate you and your motivated spirit and goal oriented self! Boy you know you can do bad all by yourself! Dump that chick or tell her she needs to get it together! Make sure you tell her "If you knew better than you'd do better!" Take it easy! peace
2007-11-15 11:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by Cherise M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
School is a priority, and if she doesn't understand that, she is being unfair. You need to have a talk with her and explain your goals, including your future goals of a good career. Tell her that you love her company and even enjoy studying with her more in her presence, but that it doesn't help to be distracted. If she understands and changes, she is good for you. If she doesn't understand, she won't understand anything that is important to you in the future and is being selfish.
2007-11-15 11:12:31 · answer #4 · answered by kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships are based of mutual comprimising and understanding. You need to let her understand what you are trying to accomplish and hope that she understands your point of view. To me it sounds very reasonable what you are requesting from her. On the other hand just remember you are in a relationship with her and not her freinds, therefore it shouldnt matter what her say about you and it shouldnt influence her if she is a "strong minded" person. She needs to understand if she hasnt already that education is very important.
2007-11-15 11:14:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
kick the bitczh out!!! your future is much more important than some dorm bimbo that you will probably never see again after you graduate. dont get tied down until you are secure in your job and future. there will always be a lot of women out there to pick from
2007-11-15 11:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you worried about her friends. Tell her you need to study and you want to STUDY with her. if she cant respect that then you will have to study alone or with out her. Your business is yours and your girlfriend should respect you enough to not go running to her friends about a private issue.
2007-11-15 11:11:26 · answer #7 · answered by louie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't have her over when you need to study. No big deal (what's the problem)? Her priorities are apparently not yours, so either learn to focus better and make it CLEAR to her that when she's over to study that is ALL that will take place, or simply don't have her over when you need to study.
2007-11-15 11:11:19 · answer #8 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, STOP INVITING HER TO STUDY WITH YOU! duhhh! hahahahhahah... why do u keep on askin' her to study when shes gonna do all those things? So study right now an then when ur done, spend time with her. =)
2007-11-15 11:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by <3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This was actually the reason why I broke up with my 1st GF. Don't try this again, or your relationship will go south.
2007-11-15 11:12:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋