i split up with my boyfriend and he told me never to ring him or nothing, so i didnt but i wanted to but i have to be strong!!! now he is texting me asking me what is going on and he feels guilty, its confussing me i do love him but i cant be with him beacause of his attitude towards me and lack of intersest in our relationship....?
2007-11-15 02:51:07 · 18 answers · asked by joy b 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Let him work harder if he really wants you back. Texting is easy too.
Make him realise your a gift.
If you are willing to give him a chance, then do so when the time is right for you.
Think about what you need and want. x
2007-11-15 03:34:41 · answer #1 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is clarity and resolution. So, here's what I suggest. Have a face-to-face sit down with you. You guys need to talk about this, openly and in person. THe purpose of the meeting is for you to 1) tell him how you feel ("Hey, I really like you and I am willing to put in the effort to make it work between us.) and to 2) ascertain whether he is on the SAME PAGE. Seriously, call him up and say "Hey, I think we should talk about things. Can we meet over coffee?" Good luck!
2007-11-15 02:55:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a head game to me. He told you to go away (probably not thinking you would) and now that you have he wants you around. Not to deflate you, but it's probably for the wrong reasons. Go away, no come back! You don't need that, find someone who wants you in his life, no games necessary.
2007-11-15 03:02:51 · answer #3 · answered by courts80 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be toying with your affections. He might be an insecure person who feels the need for girls to want him. He wants his cake and eat it. I would move away from his silly games if I was you. Honestly, you will find someone new very soon who appreciates you for who you are. Good luck and stay strong.
2007-11-15 03:01:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he made a mistake and asked you to leave him alone in the heat of the arguement, or, most likely, you did what he didn't expect. and now he's missing the attention. maybe he thinks you've moved on. maybe he doesn't want you but wants you to still want him. Keep ignoring him. He got what he asked for.
2007-11-15 02:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made his bed, let him lie in it.
You carry on girl, and get on with your life. Do not let him confuse you or give you this stress.
Ignore his texts, in fact, delete them without reading then screen his number so they go into the screened dump and you can , if you so choose, read them when it suits you.
Let him sweat. Cheeky bugger.
2007-11-15 03:03:09 · answer #6 · answered by Zed 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously you care for him but it shouldn't cost you your dignity. if he cares for you like he say he needs to know that he has to work for it. i'm not saying play games with him but find a way to let him know that you are a treasure worth fighting for. if he doesn't fight for you then some other guy will. I would go to the ends of the earth for my girl and i respect what she has to say. if he's sincere then he'll do what he has to to make things right.
2007-11-15 03:04:06 · answer #7 · answered by todd376 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He told you to stop getting in touch with him..So how much control are you going to continue to give him over your life...Don't get on his string...Because it will be your fault in the future when you feel like you have been strung along..Don't play that game..
2007-11-15 02:59:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you still have feelings for him dont let him know right away. I guess that he's confused to, and possibly might want you back. Let him chase you and do the work, if you do possibly want to start things back up again let him know.
2007-11-15 02:54:38 · answer #9 · answered by Jessica Ann. 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
best thing you can do is stay strong. dont test him back or ring him. i know its hard(been there) but in the long run, its for the best.
2007-11-15 02:56:48 · answer #10 · answered by Duckzee 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋