I had to go out of town last weekend and my significant other who usually calls me 3-4 times a nite did not call me 1 time. I thought there was something unusual about it, so I drove by his house on my way home late at nite and all the lights were out.
I had been out of town 2 times in a week and usually he stops by or something.
Yesterday he announced he had hired a housekeeper to clean his house. I have offered to do this same chore or even hire someone to do it for him and he has always said he didnt want it and he liked his house the way it was. I never pressured him because I figure he probably is naturally filthy.
This "housekeeper" was fired from her job for theft 3 days ago and I know that because my sister in law was her manager and told me about it.
His daughter says and they were wrong to fire her. They are supposed to be friends.
I think he is trying to have sex with this girl, and she was at
his house Sunday nite w/ his daughter and thats why he didnt call me
2007-11-15 01:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by happydawg 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I asked him how he met her and he told me thru his daughter who was at his house Sunday nite. I think this thief was there too and he is hiding it. I also think his interest is in sex, not housekeeping. Do you think I am being over paranoid or do most people hire thieves to clean their house with no references or checks?
2007-11-15 01:33:32 · update #1
I am not a stalker. I have dated this man for 6 yrs and I work as a professional out of town a lot. In the AIDs epedemic, I believe in monogomy and you would not believe the # of people even married couples who ended up with AIDS because their partner was secretly gay, cheating, screwing whores on the street.
I want to be assured I am monogomous and no matter what I will protect myself.
People lie all of the time.
2007-11-15 01:42:58 · update #2
Happy, if there is no trust here on either side get out of the relationship. It's not worth the work involved! It sounds like your friend is wanting to do some other sex on the side without telling you! Get out now! Take care! Jimmy.
2007-11-15 01:58:41 · answer #1 · answered by Jimmy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ha ha, sorry I just had to laugh at his lame excuse. You're "man", sorry to say is scheming something. If he didn't want your help in cleaning his home, yet, it's ok for him to find another woman to do it?? Hello, you've got a problem.
You know what your gut instincts are telling you.....swallow your pride and denial and face the truth...by moving on with your life.
2007-11-15 09:37:22 · answer #2 · answered by !?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your behaviour is bordering on the stalker line, he might not be cheating but he won't stick around for long
2007-11-15 09:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by chocolateman 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just keep your eyes and ears open. Guys always get caught. and if you truly have a gut feeling then he probably is cheating.
2007-11-15 09:40:01 · answer #4 · answered by tammy s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a little suspicious to me. Get proof before you go accusing him of anything.
2007-11-15 09:36:45 · answer #5 · answered by ~irish~moon~star~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋