Just last year stock n stocks of girls liked me , was voted best looking guy at school ... this year with college life i am no one ... i look the same & hardly changed & many still compliment me but no one interested in talking to me or whatever ... am i finished? btw last year i didn't put interest in anyone yet got lots attention while this year i care & try to be friends with girls... must i ignore girls to get attention i used to get?
2007-11-15 01:26:00 · 7 answers · asked by Joe 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's hard one day to be "important" and next day to be nobody. u know how it's happening, maybe somebody else gets now all the attention. the most important it's to be urself and what u represent for urself. don't try too hard to have all the eyes on you because they will notice. just be urself, the most important in the college it's to study, not the girls. after that, plenty of time for that. don't worry, u r not finished, u'll be fine
2007-11-15 01:34:02 · answer #1 · answered by Altheea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've experienced the high school to college transition, and things are completely different. Many people go to college to get a better education. The days of "I'm so good looking, everyone wants me" are gone. You'll have to stop living in the past; what happened in high school doesn't matter at all in college, except your grades. Focus on your education; the rest will come in time.
2007-11-15 01:30:56 · answer #2 · answered by xK 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Welcome to the real world. You are dealing with older and more mature people who have more going on in their lives now than who the cute guys at school are.
Don't expect to be God's gift to women anymore and just be yourself. People will like you for who you are once they get to know you. But the flock of giggling girls that used to hang around you if your a good looking guy are probably over.
Good Luck!
2007-11-15 01:33:18 · answer #3 · answered by nite_angelica 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls can tell when you are trying to hard. its one of the biggest turn offs in a guy. just relax. you dont have to ignore them.
2007-11-15 01:28:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Omg...unbelievable! how some guys think
2007-11-15 01:38:03 · answer #5 · answered by Fabio V 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women like men who left mystery crouching at their door..just be cool...they will like you.
2007-11-15 01:37:07 · answer #6 · answered by delfin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relax and dont try too hard
2007-11-15 01:55:34 · answer #7 · answered by Hirako 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋