Especially other women.It's relli annoying but i cnt help. Everytime i go into a room i feel tht people are judging me by the way i dress and the way i look.
2007-11-14 23:49:47 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
Yep, I do the same thing! Any other time I'm looking at them when the walk in a room and passing judgment in my own mind. So I guess it's just pay back.. They are probably thinking the same thing too!!! Remember they are just women too. Not perfect, they all have areas they are self conscious about. As long as we are clean, not trashy, not causing harm & mind our own business we are doing good! I don't know why we compare like that! I'm not the worst looking but by far the best so I should just be happy I'm alive!
2007-11-14 23:52:43 · answer #1 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You are just insecure. I don't know how old you are but confidence and that self esteem that makes you not give a crap about what others have to say, comes with time and experience. Remember this, everybody isn't going to like you. Some people hate you just because they FEEL like it. So why stress out over these kind of people? For every group of people talking crap about you, there is another group of people speaking only good things about you. That's life. Good luck.
2007-11-15 00:09:24 · answer #2 · answered by ALeoStar 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be self conscious and you are not alone when you feel that way. Just try to relax and be comfortable with who you are. Just remember that a lot of the people in the room are probably feeling the same way. Let your personality and confidence shine and try not to sweat the small stuff.....You are probably attractive and may not realize they are seeing you in a different light that you see yourself.
2007-11-15 00:00:10 · answer #3 · answered by Teresa S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I hope you did not hear them talking behind your back and saying nasty things about you.
It's really hard when we feel that we have to conform to what other people think of us.
Don't mind them by not judging them as well. If we think less about people it will help us have a positive attitude too.
2007-11-15 00:22:56 · answer #4 · answered by momsi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's just the same for me unfortunately...
but what's worse it that sometimes you see people who should be really worried and embarrassed 'cos of the way they look, dress, talk and so on... but they actually are NOT....
so why worry then??
I'm trying to be more comfortable with myself lately .... you should try as well!
2007-11-15 00:09:52 · answer #5 · answered by ¡dulce niña! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will get over that when you get older. The world is a cruel place full of expectations. Just be yourself and be confident. In time you won't even care.
2007-11-14 23:54:22 · answer #6 · answered by Summer 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you don't feel good about yourself, then people can sense that. No matter what you think, a neat, clean person who holds their head up and walks with confidence will always get more positive attention than someone who is uncomfortable with themselves.
2007-11-14 23:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
simple you shouldnt.. everyone gets paranoid about what other people think but to be honest theres no point in worrying you r who u r and thats all that matters...
2007-11-15 00:22:28 · answer #8 · answered by unique-diva 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i spent a big part of my life worrying about what people think x try not to analyze everthing so much x it just makes you tired x
2007-11-14 23:59:04 · answer #9 · answered by Ms Chaplin 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why? Probably because you lack confidence in yourself. How to fix it I can't tell you, sorry.
2007-11-15 01:32:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋