Why does this lunch worker at my school stare at me?

Question

Hi.. I'm Deniece and I'm 13... Anyway, there is this cafeteria worker and he stares at me alot.. Ever since I went to that school in the 6th Grade, he stared at me! Actually, he stared at me more... But now I'm in the 8th and he still sometimes stare or glance at me! I do think he is kinda cute... But I know for sure that I don't love him! Isn't love a special feeling you have in your heart? If it is, I don't have that with this worker..Maybe I just like the way he looks..

I think he is 22.. 25 at most

Why don't anyone believe me! I'm not playing.. He does stare at me! Even my friends see him staring at me! But now every time he stare at me and I tell my friends, he look away

I do bring my own lunch..

Answer 1

Den,

You know exactly what this is,

its a little crush, because he is handsome,

BUT from his end its not appropriate,
a man looking at a little girl , even if she is looking at him first
in wrong,

It doesn't matter if he is cute,

You should speak to your mother about this, because he could try to take things to the next level and approach you
to talk to you,

and this would be wrong,

So do me a favor, talk to your mother or a counsselor at school so they can help you understand this gentlemans
"ungentlemanly' intentions

Good luck

Meg

Answer 2

TALK TO YOUR Mother if this is real if not don't be silly as you will get someone in trouble
if your Mother was to read this one she would freak well I would any way and be straight down to the School

there are rules about being a grown up and that is why we tell all teenagers they are not ready or grown up enough to take on the world which am sure like all others you think you are a grown up

BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU SAY YOUNG LADY

and you indeed know this is wrong for this person to be looking at you the way you say he is ..

saying is play with matches you get burnt that is constant with all matters in life ...

Answer 3

love is a special feeling in your heart you feel for someone important. not cafeteria workers...and that sounds really creepy. secondly, i don't advise you going around telling everyone who you are and how old you are, especially over the internet. not saying that Y! is a bad site, just that you should try to be a little more careful....what your going through is lust. don't get caught up in that; lust is the fall of the human race and has proven that time and time again.

Answer 4

Hi D
Sounds to me he likes what he sees, and it sounds to me you like him checking you out. Smiles so hes seen you grow up and become a young adult. Has he done anything to make you feel scared or weird if not dont let it bother you and enjoy the attention. Love is hard to explain and you will know whenit happens. Plus you must think hes cute.

Answer 5

How is she dressed? Does she look older than 13? Have her dress more age appropriate. If he still stares, report his behavior to a teacher, the principal, etc.

Answer 6

Stay away from him, he sounds creepy. If he goes around staring at 13-year-old girls he is probably a pedophile.

Answer 7

OK, so you have issues with GROWN WOMEN dressing the wya they want (your last question), but yet you are 13 and going after the lunch worker at your school?

That's just freakin' great.

Quit making up questions.

Answer 8

He stares at you because he thinks you look cute. Or maybe you remind him of his daughter. wait a min..how old is the lunch worker?

i'll distant myself from potential paedophiles.

Answer 9

No hes a paedophile. Tell someone about this and stay away from him. You never know what hes capable of.

Answer 10

are you making up these questions as you go along? And you keep spelling Denice wrong. Yesterday when you made up this profile you said you were gonna wait for the right man and get married, now your thinking about a relationship with the lunch guy? I think you are the lunch guy and your prowling the yahoo for un suspecting girls. I think Ill report you.