This is the story, a friend of mine who is 18 years old is seeing a 19 years old guy, they have been very intimate with each other, but my friend told me that she is not ready for sex and she plans on waiting and her boyfriend agreed to wait for her, but now that they are so much into each other and they kiss and touch all the time, it got a bit hard for him,
so now he told her that if he can do it with the head of his penis he won't hurt her and she will still be a virgin, so my friend was not sure if this is true she came to me for advise, now I'm coming to you,
Is it really true that if he only use his head she will still be a virgin,
Is it possible to just use the head?
2007-11-14 22:45:40 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
Once any part of a man's penis is in your body you are no longer a virgin. Is it possible to use just the head? Obviously not. Once the head goes in the rest will go too.
2007-11-14 22:50:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's possible to use just the head.
No, you're not a virgin afterwards, at least not if you're being at all honest. It was in or it wasn't - silly word games about how far in don't change anything.
Shallow penetration is less likely to damage the hymen. Unfortunately, way too many people think "hymen = virginity." That's not true. Lots of women lose their hymens long before their first sexual encounter, and they're virgins. Some women have very stretchy hymens - their menstrual opening can take a penis with little or no damage. Even with a hymen intact (or mostly), they're no way virgins.
2007-11-15 20:46:27 · answer #2 · answered by Tom V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Answers: No, she would not be a virgin if he put the head of his penis in her vagina!
And NO: it is not possible to just use the head, in that the body will naturally thrust. She will get more than just the head, I can guarentee that! And without a condom, she is risking pregnancy even if he is just prodding around without penetration.
All guys lie, and he just wants to have sex. He has no respect for his girlfriend to put her in an awkward situation like this--pushing for a "compromise" that is not in her best interest. She should dump him.
2007-11-15 10:36:12 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats like the oldest trick in the book.Lol only the head? Do you really think he will only use his head? When he gets the chance he will shove it all up there.She should let him wait.He wont die. Its all just sweet talk and tricks to get her in bed.If he wont stop then the best thing would be for them to split till he learns self control.Penis + Vagina = No more virginity
And its not possible to use "just the head". Oh he can use the head but believe me the rest will follow.
TELL HER TO WAIT!!! DON'T LET HIM FOOL HER!!
2007-11-15 08:52:38 · answer #4 · answered by Snake 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No- she'd not be a virgin if he just used the head. My goodness. Plus she could still get pregnant that way too.
2007-11-15 10:28:53 · answer #5 · answered by Alison 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
oldest trick in the book once the head is in the rest is soon to follow and now you won't be a virgin any longer
2007-11-15 09:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no she would no longer be a virgin. Any amount of penetration would mean she is no longer a virgin. Plust even 1/2 inch of penis in there would be enough to transfer STD's and get her pregenant so he would still need to wear a condom.
2007-11-15 06:50:22 · answer #7 · answered by searay092003 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Any man will tell you that to get laid. If the head is in, the rest is sure to follow. Its like your starving and you tell yourself to only take a little piece of that beautiful, juicy, mouth watering T-Bone steak and put it in your mouth and not chew it or swallow it. It just won't happen. Try oral sex. Lar
2007-11-15 08:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by lar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think this is called the ''brushing'' technique,where the ''head'' is used as a paint brush against your friends....yea that one.No insertion takes place,at all.It is possible for her to still be a virgin...........but will it be possible for any of the two to stop,when they begin playing???? Alternatively they can both use their fingers and tounges and some imagination !!!
2007-11-15 07:59:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
OH! gawd!.. How niave can someone get?... ROFL..
if she opens the door for an inch.. he will take a mile... There will be no "head only" sex... He will take his chances and go for it.. beleive me.. He is only sweet talking her into giving in.. He knows it...
and even if he did manage to keep his teen raging hormones in check (which no teen guy can when they have the golden door open to them).. She can get pregnant with pre ejaculation fluid (yahoo wouldnt allow me to type the real words) anyways...
I cant believe you even asked this question.. but oh well..
2007-11-15 06:50:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mintee 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋