My Boyfriend left me for another Girl months ago.He came crawling bac 3mths after. I took him bac. I LUV HIM BUT ALWAYS eXPECT THE WORSE for us. Im constently accusing him of cheating.He always has excuses when he doesnt call me. We argue about the dumbest things. I always feel down and stupid for taking him back.Everytime we argue i throw the cheating situation in his face.I brake up with him and then get back with him.Im soo stressed out.I dont know what to do. My self esteem is so low.I feel helpless.
2007-11-14 22:28:24 · 10 answers · asked by FantasyGirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
walk away it will be hard but you will get over it just a matter of time, try not to talk or see him it makes it a lot easier in months when you do see him and get out and enjoy yourself with your friends plenty more fish in the sea and better ones.
2007-11-14 22:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by arches79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I feel your pain. I also have low self-esteem which causes me to take back-stabbing friends back.
If you can't trust him, chances are that it's for a good reason. Better to be safe than sorry. If it makes you unhappy, break up with him for good and don't pick up his calls or open his e-mails. Once a cheater, always a cheater. At least, that's what I think.
Do what you want to do, don't let people like him hold you down and make you feel bad. Life is about being happy. Who wants to live when you're sad and your boyfriend sucks? Just do it. (yes, I am copying Nike...)
If he makes you feel depressed and stupid for taking him back, don't do it the next time. Leave him there and pay no attention to his pleas.
And if you feel like you have low self esteem, think this, he wants you back and you have the power to reject him. You have some power over him. And he left that other girl for you, too. Get your revenge by stomping over his heart, like he stomped over yours.
:) I hope you feel better, relationships are a pain in the ---.
2007-11-14 23:31:49 · answer #2 · answered by Miran Kuan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not be low on self esteem, it was he who left U, but U r so special, beautiful & nice that he has to return.. Now it is ur turn to accept/reject his proposal.. But since U said that still he is not changed much, Then I think U should make him pay for his mistake.. Dump him dear, because it will be good for life in future.... Also there is no gurantee that he will not dump u in future again , if U accept him again... It is hard to say no to someone U loved in past but we need to face the reality & believe in facts only....
2007-11-15 00:44:10 · answer #3 · answered by abhi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll learn a valuable lesson over this.. once a cheater always a cheater, so tell boyfriend to get lost and move on with our life, otherwise you ll spend the rest of your life arguing and being upset by his behavior
2007-11-14 23:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
walk away
let me be blunt and tell you why...
he tossed you to the side, replaced you before he broke up with you and didn't love you enough to be faithful.
thats just the beginning.
He came crawling back because you probably TOLD him you still loved him, since he knew he could use you some more for sympathy, he played on your emotions and you fell for it.
its always - I love him and he didn't mean it and hes sorry and he wont do it again - then after the third or forth time you are wondering when he'll be home to take you and the baby out to Ryans.
wake up
2007-11-14 23:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by blase' blahhh 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
that sounds just like me. Every time me and my bf would argue, the first thing I would bring up was the time he cheated on me. We have a baby together too. But after so long i realized i would never trust him & countine to be insecure because of this. i knew it would be hard to end it, but i knew it was the best. I ended it and it's still hard.
2007-11-15 03:47:37 · answer #6 · answered by BugsNSofie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey you need to move on, I know u dont want to be alone, but its better than how u r feeling now, make time for ur friends and do things to keep ur mind occupied. U will get over him, there r plenty of fish in the sea, but dont rush out to find one, true love comes to those who wait.
2007-11-15 02:10:06 · answer #7 · answered by Kathy D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it seems you are going down a rocky road; too nowhere.
don.t feel bad about taking him back .you did what you thought was right . after all ,we are all human .the outlook long
term is.t to Rosy .just tell him you need a break .and then just
take each day ;as it comes .
2007-11-14 22:48:07 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communicate and you two can go counselling together. Best wishes.
2007-11-14 23:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel that bad dont walk away, run girl!!!!!!
2007-11-14 23:30:19 · answer #10 · answered by jeanjean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋