how can i get him to love me again (possitive answers please)?

Question

my ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago and he told me that he love another girl that dont love him and the love he had for me is gone and he has some feeling for me but not alot and the reason why we broke up was because we arrgued (even when it was his fault). ..........he keep telling me that me and him can be friends with benifits (but i dont want that because that seem like he is using me)and he said that i will always be his baby. but a couple of days later he tell me he love me and then after if i say it back he would tell me that he dont want me to get hurt if i tell him i love him.i talk to him every single day and he comes to see me sometimes .........does he still love me? and how can i get him to love me again? and how can i get him to love me again? i tell him how i feel about him but he dont say anything back and i am really in love with him and i cant move on

Answer 1

i am in the same position pretty much. and ye people are right. you cant make somebody love you. if they dont, they dont. i know it hurts honey, im there right now too. take comfort in the fact that others are there with you :)

i thinkg the other answers are right, we need to move on. at least he's talking to you. mine said he with someone else and he hates me and i meant nothing. thats nice hey. after a year. i think we can both be positive theres someone better for us and to move on. or at least try really hard :) good luck babe. im sure u can do better

Answer 2

People do that stuff when they don't know what they want. How could you be comfortable if he went back with you? If he went back with you who is to say he would not turn his mind around in a minute. He seems very indecisive. There would be no security. Mimi is right; there is nothing here for you. If you don't move on you will be sitting wallowing in sadness because things will never be as you picture. Then you start to wonder what is wrong with yourself witch is some thing you don't want to get to. There is nothing wrong with you. He is just immature and needs some growing up to do. No one that asks to be friends with benefits while in love with another girl has commitment enough to be in the relationship you are looking for. Just step back, let your feelings fade or else you will get hurt even more.

I have been in countless relationships when I didn’t know what I wanted. It was easy for me to turn my head to some one else. Though now I have great idea of what I need in a mate. I will accept no less. So now that I know what I want I am completely committed and not looking astray. Maybe he will figure out what he needs one day but you don’t want to be crushed in the middle of this.

Answer 3

I'm not being negative if you want him back completely ignore him for a month if he begs you to come back then try again if you want to. If he doesn't contact you he only wanted you as a f buddy and nothing else. Sorry

Answer 4

have some pride and exit this dead relationship gracefully. how can you expect positive answers? you can not make someone love you, you can not buy someones love. he is finished with you and you need to be woman enough and move on. why waste time on a man who doesn't love you? when one door closes, another one opens. you are entitled to happiness and you will find it with someone else. do the right thing and move on.

Answer 5

The short answer is you cant get him to love you. Either he does or he dosnt and there is nothing you can do to change that. I really think you should move on
good luck

Answer 6

You can't force anyone to love you. Sounds like this relationship is dead. I'll move on with life if I were you

Answer 7

Forget the boyfriend just get on with your life.