What do you wish your partner would do with you, but you won't ask or they've refused? Setting, activity, apparel, whatever! What would spice things up? Thanks! :-)
2007-11-14 21:57:55 · 23 answers · asked by Nata 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm kinda just wondering what would be fun for guys to keep things from getting too routine and predictable... Thanks!
2007-11-14 22:05:35 · update #1
And I know guys like to be dominated sometimes, but do they also enjoy being the dominator? Ya know, bondage style?
2007-11-15 15:48:26 · update #2
I would like my wife to surprise me. She has on occasion in the past, and it was great.
I am sure she has fantasies that she has never told me about or acted on. I'd try anything with her once.
I'd also love to hear about the fantasies that she would never do, but that she has thought about.
2007-11-15 01:24:31 · answer #1 · answered by mjmayer188 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't care if you hang up side down with nothing on the fact of the matter is a husband and wife gets bored being with the same partner. You can only do so many different things in bed then that becomes routine. After 10,20 years of marriage spicing up your sex life does not exist. Just having plan sex once a week if your lucky, is all the spicing up your going to get.
2007-11-15 06:24:47 · answer #2 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you have to keep one thing in mind not every men will be the same and so you can't make one happy because the other was/will be happy that way, so a good start will be asking question like what he likes better, what will be his fantasies and be open with him and tell him your desires too, you will see things will be OK.
so the whole thing are both of you desires and have some good times together but only the two of you can figure out what exactly you want we can recommend some thing but that doesn't mean it will work with the two of you.
so one recommendation will be a romantic night in your porch/balcony/garden late night where no one could be around and close enough from the bed room so when things heat up you can there easily even if you had start out side already.
2007-11-15 06:19:52 · answer #3 · answered by Tjarley 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Since there are children on this site, one can't get too graphic. Suffice it to say that communications don't have to be verbal. The mere positioning of one's body while having sex can indicate to our spouse what we want. Or we can look through books together, and if we something we would like we could make a favorable comment and see what the reaction would be.
Me, there are so few things that I can think of that I would not try with my wife if she was amenable. I certainly would not want to force her to do anything that she might be uncomfortable with though.
2007-11-15 07:49:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anthony F 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love spontaneity and the wife seems to think sex is for when we go to bed for the night. Sometimes I'm tired and fall asleep . I've suggested sex frequently during the day or first thing in the morning, just to get my hand slapped and she acts like I'm crazy to even consider it. To close, I don't think sex should have time boundaries. She's very good in bed and I want to try it everywhere else.
2007-11-15 07:28:58 · answer #5 · answered by lenzix5 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would just like to have our sex life back!!! I would love to have sex with my wife ever day 2 twice a day and 3 times on Sunday!!! I love to perform oral sex on my wife and listen to her moans and screams of erotic pleasure...I would love to do more role play dress up and really get into it...use toys, oh and come home from work and have the wife go down town!!!
2007-11-15 10:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This is to personal for me to indulge you in my se* life with my husband, but all I can say is we do a lot of reading, watch a lot of "fun" tv, and use our imagination, and it also takes skill and technique!!!!!!
And oh, yes, exercise, like go swimming before, so you can be all flexible and tone, and even more sexy!!!!!!!
Apparel?? There is no such thing!!!!! JMO and only JMO.
2007-11-15 06:11:22 · answer #7 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Love is what makes a good partner to me. If they refuse to satisfy my needs then I wouldn't bother. If I don't ask it's my fault. As far as setting the mood I take a bath with my partner or a shower, light candles, burn incense, ask for what I need if I have to and let the good times roll........no pun intended...LOL........
2007-11-15 06:10:48 · answer #8 · answered by Rosa 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
more attention in the bed room and more time not just get in the bed and after about 30 minutes all foreplay and sex is over because she is about to fall asleep. make it an event and be alert and attentive and spend some time playing and experimenting.
2007-11-15 06:05:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Nata, I love clothing which makes the imagination go crazy. For example, I love regular panties over thongs, because thongs reveal almost everything once the outer garment is taken off. I also love the way in which the legs and butt look in them.
I love to give a woman oral sex, and love to do it for hour, yes hours. I love seeing a woman's thighs quivering, and hearing her moans of pleasure. I have never been refused anything. I love a woman with pubic hair, and women who i have met that were shaved, grew it for me.
2007-11-15 06:07:45 · answer #10 · answered by Leonard S 2 · 3⤊ 2⤋