someone in my group of friends started being sh@tty to me for no known reason and then everybody tagged along and now everyone is ignoring me. I feel like a loser. I dont know why considering I dont think i have done anything wrong. In fact i know i havent and cant figure out why they would all abandon me. What should I do? I feel like just giving up. Should i remain friendless and just forget about it?
2007-11-14 21:56:49 · 21 answers · asked by hiss 1 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I need to repeat somethings I heard that work for me in my life it will probably work for you everything happens for a reason... You are probably being saved from something bad by them giving a cold shoulder for nothing...... get new friends if not you can be your own best friends..... You friends or should I say your ex-friends are childish. Show them you are better than that and walk away.....
Dont think yourself as a loser you can end up being one.... think winner
2007-11-14 22:14:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heck, this can really suck. I had the same thing. At some points in life, some people can just stupid for no reason, especially when you're still at school and not everybody has quite grown up yet.
I found it really hard, I was virtually friendless for about 4/5 months, just because one person went off me, then eventually everybody else followed. They all got over it in the end, there wasn't even a reason for it, we all get along well again now, and one of them is still a best friend.
It's really hard to know what to do. Don't let it get you down too much. If it's group behavior and they're just doing it around other people, maybe they'll be more friendly if there's only 1 or 2 of them around?
If you do remain friendless, remember it won't last forever. Find things to do until someone realises that they are the losers not you. Don't give up.
I know this isn't really much of an answer, but i hope it encourages you.
2007-11-14 22:11:16 · answer #2 · answered by silvarbullet1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I believe guys do stuff like that to get a rise out of you. to see what you will do. You don't need them, find someone who needs a friend, and you be the best friend you can be to someone else who will appreciate you. Join a new group at school that none of them are a part of. Just for the experience. Or start jogging, you can get free endorphins from running, that will make you feel better!
2007-11-14 22:10:41 · answer #3 · answered by snowcrablegs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why would you feel that way if you have done nothing wrong? you shouldnt. but if they were your friends.. walk up and ask ..what the problem is and let them know you deserve better treatment. if they come up with something you did... address it head on and if apology is needed than say it. if not.. there is nothing you can do... but either wait for them to come around.. and seek new friends in the mean time. if you feel like a loser over this situation.. you definately need to get a little more backbone. life gets alot tougher than this... so man up. good luck
2007-11-14 22:02:32 · answer #4 · answered by foosieboy1953 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think , u act only like a loser ...
if he is the one stalking people around ON u , u will definitely be the loser if u didn't stalk back at him...
People -almost all- are like sheep , be the Dog -bite and howl- and they will follow ur lead ...
u can stay the loser u think u r ... or become the new leader , knock him off and be the only one !
Cheers !
2007-11-14 22:03:06 · answer #5 · answered by Haitham Emad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something to make yourself feel better that doesn't involve the opinion of your friends.
You need to boost your self esteem so that it comes from within, not without.
Write down all the things that you like about yourself, that you are good at, that you see as your strengths, and read it over often.
And make some new friends.
2007-11-14 22:01:43 · answer #6 · answered by Theresa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well they aren't good friend then because they should know that if you ignore someone it makes someone upset so they shouldn't do that so just go and try and be friends again and if they still don't accept you back and just let them along and walk away and make new friends and I'll be here when you need a friend.
2007-11-14 22:03:59 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make new friends your old true friends will soon come round.
ask you get older your friends will change a number of times, when you start uni, go to work, children etc.
its part of growing up, maybe you no longer have much in common with this gang but you will find a new gang of friends, even if you don't go round with them any more you can still speak with them.
good luck
2007-11-14 22:03:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depending upon how old you are you might just be a loser. There nothing wrong with that its just what you are..
No but..seriously screw them. You dont need friends to validate yourself. Be who you are and the friend shall follow
2007-11-14 22:04:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your Friends are sheep, if they can't make up their own minds then go and find some other friends. I had the same problems with friends of mine, girls can be really catty and awful, but not sure about fellas though.
2007-11-14 22:01:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋