i am in love . he also loves me , but now his family is creating problem , plz help me what should i do?

Question

before some months his father was agree for our marrage , his father told me that if your family becomes agree , then we have no problem we will allow u both to marry. now my family is agree but now his father is telling that its not possible now. my boyfriend don't want to go aganst his family........
what shouls i do?????? plz help me......
his uncle has expired, now his uncle's childs also depends on his family.......i am in a big problem........i want to marry with him...how can i make his family agree......

Answer 1

It is clear you are from another culture. In many, the family is a major influence in marital issues. In the United States, we are raised valuing our independence, and our independent judgment. I have been in relationships with women who my family disliked also, but I did not back away due to their feelings. Look at the people in his family. Did his family chose their husbands or wives? You say you want to marry this man, yet he does not want to go against his family? Well he obviously chose his family's feelings over yours already. My advice to you is to find a real man who can think independently, and not rely upon a family council to make life's important decisions for him.

Answer 2

If he loves you like he say he does then nothing can stand in the way not even his family. just think back in your mind on what went wrong and correct it.

Answer 3

You aren't telling us WHY they are against your marriage. Nobody can tell you how to make them agree until we know why they don't.

Answer 4

what country do u live in

Answer 5

if he really loves u hel marry u no matter wot

Answer 6

Forgave her