2007-11-14 20:35:37 · 17 answers · asked by natali 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Having GOD in your lives is what makes the relationship stronger. Everything else just falls into place.
Sex is only more meaningful when you are married.
2007-11-14 20:50:56 · answer #1 · answered by †Evonne† 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes and no.
First No:
I believe that we are talking about love between husband and wife here. Hence the relationhsip is based on trust. But often it is mistaken as trust in the sense of any biz deal ... "I give you my word as a gentleman etc. ..." I think this is the big mistake foten made ...well I MADE THIS MISTAKE. Now I learn that this trust is about not hurting the otehr person ...taking the interest to knwo and understand the others feelings .... and doing things that will not him/her ... so thi al leads to propoer communications ... abotu how to cmmunicate our feelings ... so very often we do not convey our true feelings ...but use "cryptic ways" to convery it ... or the often heard .... "but you should have know" etc...
So why NO ... because if there is no communication and so you do not understand the others feelings, then we will forever be making big mistakes and hurting the other person again adn again without truly understandgin why .... but we kiss and make up ... plus sex ... tends to give the false impressiontaht everything is OK (particulalry for guys ... and I am guitly of it) ... but in truth ... it is not OK ..cos deep down the fire is still boiling and one dy it will erupt and thigns will never be th same again.
Now for the YES - if both are communicating ... and there is trust ... then sex ... I prefer to call it love making ... becomes so meaning full, cos' this is the "deepest" level of trust that can be achieved (wel jsut my opinion) ....
Hope my sharing is of interst.Cheers
2007-11-15 04:47:54 · answer #2 · answered by SomeOne 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, my husband and I got out of the habit of making love often and we started arguing a lot. Now we have sex at least 2-3 times per week and we argue less and seem to feel closer to one another. Sex isn't everything but it can make you stronger as a couple of you are deeply in love already.
2007-11-17 02:14:22 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my best relationship had involved everything but sex. It was the real deal and i'm glad we didn't bring that in to complicate things. We really got to know and understand each other on a deeper, more meaningful level. As far as marriage goes, yes i feel it is healthy and necessary
2007-11-15 04:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by charmed 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, sex makes the relationship very strong. Sex is like a thirst that needs to be quenched regularly. It is in our nature. Relationships are all about bonding and guess when men and women are most likely to bond? Right after an orgasm!
2007-11-15 04:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It can, but it can actually hurt a relationship, too. It depends on whether it is a healthy relationship with good foundations in the first place. It is not a bandage, and is not going to "fix" anything that is fundamentally broken.
2007-11-15 04:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well you cant say that is doesn't. because when my husband and I dont have sex for awhile I start to feel unattractive and that could start other problems so in a way it does. I mean people get divorces because of impedance. And after sex we are like lovey dovey for days.
2007-11-15 04:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by texasmom 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sex is one of the important thing that holds couple together ( relationship) especially if it is well given by both sides.
2007-11-15 04:46:27 · answer #8 · answered by chantelle 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If it's a one-night stand, then no. But if it is something shared in a long-term monogamous relationship (marriage!), then yes. It helps the couple to connect on all sorts of levels--physical and emotional.
2007-11-15 04:47:06 · answer #9 · answered by Linni 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
sex is a key part of kep a relationship afloat...sex brings out passion , and lust for eachother..which in turn brings out trust, and understanding....be very open,and willin with ur partner...an thats how life will always be, open,honest and willing.
2007-11-15 07:27:40 · answer #10 · answered by FunniUglyGuy 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋