i am 8 months pregnant and i left my baby's father 6 months ago. i left him because he is a lyin piece of s**t! anyway i know that i dont want him back so why do i care if he is seeing someone else? i know that this absolutly makes no sense but i am confused about what i feel for him. could it just be because i am pregnant with his child? mature responses please!!thanks
2007-11-14 19:02:11 · 17 answers · asked by afisher198322 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is totally understandable.... You do not want him but you do not want anyone else to have him. he is the father of the child and you are probably going to want him to have SOME time with the child and I'm sure that you are not going to want him to spend his time with the child AND some other girl... Plus you probably, somewhere deep down inside, want him to straighten up and become what he should have been all along so he can be with you and the baby. Just speculating.
2007-11-14 19:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by shootit247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a lyin' peice of ****, so said u, and probably lookin' for the next a** to tap, you're pregnant and not in much of a position to be dating. You are in a position where u can't move on to a new relationship right now and are probably feeling a bit rejected and left behind. Take care of your baby, F*ck him, work out, take him for all the child support you can get, and screw his brother or his best friend! Sucks 2 be **** on and he should feel it too!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-11-14 19:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Rach 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only natural to feel this way. I think that it is the realization that they don't want you anymore, and even if you don't necessarily want them, it's tough. At one point you cared very deeply for him I'm assuming, and it can be hard to break up, but even harder to let go. You might be ready to move on, but it's almost easier to be the first one to do it. When the other person finds someone new, a whole other ball of wax starts. If they begin to change, you may start to ask yourself......why not for me.....or what does this woman have that I don't. I hope this makes sense. Been through a similar situation, no pregnancy involved. Hope your pregnancy is going great!
2007-11-14 19:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by hart2756 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could be just because you are pregnant with his baby, but then again it could also be something more. I think you need to look back at what he did in the first place...what started his lying etc. If that is legitimate than you are probably just worried about your babies future... after all whoever he ends up with will be your child's step mom.It is perfectly normal to have these worries but what you need to do is accept that some things are out of your control, but there always will be things that aren't like getting through that exciting pregnancy of yours. Just try to calm down and not worrie. One thing to remember though is to not take him back just because of the baby because that never works out in the long run.
2007-11-14 19:09:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becasue you care for him. There is nothing wrong with caring for someone, but make sure that you don't use that caring as an excuse to get bak with him.
You are carring his child and you both have a special bond, but if the relationship is poisonous , then let the relationship go and keep moving forward with your baby. You will always have a special place in your heart for him, but don't let that keep you with him. Admit you still care for him. love your baby and wish him the best.
Good luck and God Bless!
2007-11-14 19:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by sparkling_apple 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I be blunt ? You care because he put his part into your part and it felt good. Oops... hey... your pregnant... ah lover-boy? O.K. God, what's up? I'm 8 months and he's cross town mess'in with Suzy Flophouse. Boo-hoo life ain't no fun anymore... Boo-hoo !!!
Guess what? There are a whole bunch of guys out there who would love to marry you and be with you and your child forever and ever- Amen. So we took care of that situation. Now we have to "FIND" this Mr. Wonderful.
Start looking at Church. (Thats how I met "my" wife and she's got 3 kid's and 7 grand-kid's !!!) Well... I've got 5, so now we've got full-house (ha-ha).
2007-11-14 19:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by the3rdtom 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens with pretty much every relationship that has ended
Try and get some closure, or something of the like.
Once you're baby comes along, you'll completely forget about it and be totally cool with your life :P
xoxo
P.S. Congrats on the pregnancy and good luck
2007-11-14 19:06:03 · answer #7 · answered by stefi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's pretty normal...
there will also a time that you can't help but to cry. eventhough you hate him, you still care because he is the father of your unborn baby. but of course, you should still allow him to see his baby when time comes. he is still responsible whether you like it or not. and you should always consider first, your baby before you or your feelings because you are not alone anymore. you have your baby now to face the reality in life. God bless you always and congrats in advance. Be safe and take care!
2007-11-14 19:20:23 · answer #8 · answered by luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's your child's father... of course you care about him to some degree. And it always hurts to see your ex in a new relationship with someone else... that's perfectly normal.
Are you planning for him to be involved in your child's life at all?
2007-11-14 19:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're just emotional right now. I was totally in love with my sons father until after I had the baby, and came back to my senses! And believe me, it doesn't take long to 'snap back to reality'!
2007-11-14 19:07:43 · answer #10 · answered by ice princess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋