I am meeting a cousin that I never met before from my dads side ( i do not have communication with my father) she is from Hawaii and coming to California. She is coming to Los Angeles Airport (LAX) she asked me that she will like to meet that day she gets here in the morning. The thing is that I don't know where to take care to talk or hang out she is coming with her boyfriend and well I don't know if I should take mine.
So my question is
should I take my boyfriend?
Where could we go to (eat, drink, walk) ?
I have no idea where to take her and what to do HELP!!!!
2007-11-14 18:35:51 · 8 answers · asked by madeinaugust82 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Im adopted and have recently met some of my biological relatives for the first time.
One thing that helped was by taking one of my children or my boyfriend along. It also helped to meet the first time in a public place.
One doesnt want meetings like this to be heavy or emotional. Try to make them fun and enjoyable.
2007-11-14 18:42:31 · answer #1 · answered by LadyJ480 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your boyfriend makes you feel more comfortable, I would take him with you.
You didn't say how long she's going to be there with you for.
Some ideas if she'll be there several days: Disneyland, Universal Studios, the beach, Hollywood.
If she's only there for the day: Go find a fun restaurant near the airport or near where she's staying and just grab something to eat and talk.
2007-11-15 03:13:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If hers is with her, take your bf. Just take them site seeing, and stop by for lunch or dinner at a unique place. They are in town to see a new place, something different, so make it interesting. Do things that are unique to Los Angeles. Try checking out some brochures in a local hotel. They usually have plenty of tourist ideas in them.
2007-11-15 02:47:15 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, take your boyfriend. and maybe go rollerskating or bowling or ice skating. it may sound kiddish but its a fun way to get to knoe each other. maybe hang out at the mall and get some pizza and do some shopping even if you dont buy anything maybe play some mini golf like i said this is kiddish but it lets everyone get to know eachother in a goofy kind of way so you can see if their funny, shy, happy etc. more fun than the movies
2007-11-15 02:43:18 · answer #4 · answered by erin electric 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's a good idea! you should take your boyfriend.
and you go to those places that you think you will enjoy also.
you can also ask your cousin and her boyfriend what are their interest so that you will not be awkard to introduce those places. have a wonderful day to four of you!
2007-11-15 03:05:30 · answer #5 · answered by luna 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im from hawaii =]
and most of us from here are actually laid back you know. we dont expect much stuff we just like to hang. no i dont think u should bring your bf cuz it might make her feel uncomfortable and you guys should spend sometime first and she clearly said she wanted to see you.
2007-11-15 02:40:30 · answer #6 · answered by misz.lala 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well if i were you i wouldn't take my BF.....but uh ask her what food she likes and show her really cool places there cause odds are if you've never met then shes never been to LA.......ha ha so ya just ask her what kinda music she likes(you know small talk) n just show her i guess the hot spots of LA.................................... ha ha hope i helped.
2007-11-15 02:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by chelsburger10 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
make sure she doesnt take advantage of you , just invite her to your house and thats it, your not obligated to take her around
2007-11-15 03:02:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋