I have succeeded in doing this all my life. But I have finally come to the realization that in that success, I have actually LOST the real me. I am currently trying to break down that wall and I have to admit that it's an extremely hard thing to do. It's very painful. I'm having recurring migraines, my stomach is tied in knots and my nerves are shot. I don't know which side of the wall is better. But I do know that straddling that sucker is a b*tch.
2007-11-15 03:21:50
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I used to, but learned that no one likes a fake person and I got tired of putting up a front in front of so many people. It is hard work to do that. It is much easier to show who I really am to everyone.
2007-11-14 18:22:50
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answer #2
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answered by honey 6
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i think of you're able to ask him to stay with you. He for sure has had a annoying existence and desires somebody such as you to consistently be there. whether he properly-knownshows a...um...guy...you could consistently be there, waiting interior the wings. maximum relationships as those do not final. If his does, which may well be good for him, you would be the information desirable pal who, whether he went out and dyed his hair crimson you're able to nevertheless love him. As for now, attempt to be consoling. next time you bypass see him, attempt announcing something like, "i know your disillusioned desirable now. So am I. yet Albert Einstein as quickly as pronounced "God would not play cube with the universe.' we are able to get by way of this. i'm with you all the way." you could likely think of of a much less dramatic and corny thank you to furnish that common message :D optimistically, sufficient encouraging will set him on the desirable direction. you're saying which you have been slightly unhappy that 'not something could come of your courting'. i'm right here to declare in case you stand by ability of him in tough spots, love him unconditionally, snort frequently, and merely stay your existence at the same time, its the desirable adventure. Later on your existence, you have a twist of romance. in the adventure that your searching for something to declare romance smart: "i know your existence hasn't precisely flowed happiness. yet happiness is a private determination. in case you come back with me, we are able to be happy. at the same time." Sorry, i choose for the dramatic :D
2016-09-29 06:50:16
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answer #3
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answered by sedlay 4
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I've done that a lot. A self preservation thing. I prefer just being me, and not too many people know the real me.
2007-11-15 00:22:54
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answer #4
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answered by softkisses4707 5
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I would guess I do but I don't know if I think it is a front when I am being who they see I am.
It depends on the relationship, I guess...
2007-11-14 18:45:45
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answered by LORD Z 7
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my front has been up for at least 13 yrs, nobody knows the real me.
2007-11-14 18:21:23
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answer #6
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answered by Ms Medieval 7
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Yes. I don't want anyone to know the real me. I don't trust anyone except myself (and I've got serious reservations about "me"...)
2007-11-14 18:25:12
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answer #7
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answered by miri-miri-off-the-wall 5
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I havent,but people have told me I do. I'm just a secretive person,I don't share everything.
2007-11-14 18:23:29
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answered by Anonymous
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Nope....
2007-11-14 18:27:08
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answered by ? 6
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a few times......
2007-11-14 18:21:03
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answered by Anonymous
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