well its kinda embarassing to say but iam much attarcted to older women iam 19 and i just have fantasy for havin *** with older women i feel really bad coz i also get such fantasises abt my relatives plzz tell me how to get rid of it
ps:iam really attarcted towards my aunt wat do i do???
2007-11-14 17:36:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is not uncommon to have sexual fantasies about older women. Just remember that some of these women are family, and it would not be normal to make advances to them.
Try finding you an older woman that is single and not related to you, if you feel the need to try one that is older.
2007-11-14 17:42:54 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Im 43 and my guy is 21 we are going on 4 years together. Maybe you should stop looking at them as just sex. We have a wonderful relationship. Just let it run it coarse with your aunt, don't act on that one? As for going for older... good for you ! You have brains to look outside the box!
2007-11-14 19:09:53 · answer #2 · answered by openminded 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding someone your age or a little younger that you can talk to openly. try getting the thought of being attracted to older women out of your head because it really won't help you in life. older women are nice to talk to but fantasies with them are just not right, or at least to me. try determining yourself in your mind every time your in front of a relative that this is wrong. keep saying it in your head. determination will help you out of this situation. determination to stop.
2007-11-14 18:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by chicka_number_aik 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well noo thats not natural..I mean about the whole likeing your aunt thing.. about the older girls its ok.. but just not family members..Maybe you should try talking to a phsychiarist...to help you get the family members off your mind..Thats definitly not good
2007-11-14 17:48:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay maybe youre joking but what is with all these people and their insestual thoughts about relatives for gods sake back of the relatives they're your blood!
2007-11-14 19:07:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax and have a control .over yourself.....
Cheers
2007-11-14 19:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Prince 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uh...getting help would be a good start....
2007-11-14 17:42:12 · answer #7 · answered by poodlegirl1313 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋