im 17 and i think i am a very attractive girl...i have only slept with 3 guys and one of the guys i was dating for over a year. i am now with my boyfriend and we have sex alll the time....
but.
we've only been dating for a month..is it bad that i like sex?
is that such a crime?
guys have sex and they dont get bitched at....
stereotypes and sexists... they make me mad.
2007-11-14 12:12:11 · 9 answers · asked by hooty hooo!! 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
No, there is nothing wrong with having sex and women should not be stereotyped for liking it as much as guys. Just please be careful about pregnancy. If you are and trust the person you love, then hope you have a fun and enjoyable life:)
2007-11-15 16:45:17 · answer #1 · answered by Sirius70 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, its not bad- but you have to know how to keep your reputation up. I dont think it was a good idea to sleep with a guy you have dated for less than a month because you are very young (you dont want to be on number 47 when you are 22)
2007-11-14 20:25:54 · answer #2 · answered by supergirl 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
"only 3 guys" at seventeen. It is not a crime, and I do not feel it is sexist to say this to you because I would feel the same way about a guy who had "only 3 girls" at 17..... You are cruising for heartbreak, STD's, bad reputation, increased risk of cervical cancer and I personally think that's a wee bit too much too soon..... ( Ok I wouldn't have said the cervical cancer part to a guy )
Haven't you heard of masterbation? Buy a vibrator.
2007-11-14 20:19:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It is not bad to like sex, however it is very dangerous to have multiple sex partners and/or have unprotected sex. Watch out for STD's and HIV and Hepatitis! Be safe. Also remember that the reputation that you make for yourself will fallow you through life!
2007-11-14 20:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My fears are STD's an unwanted pregnancy and Jen most of all your reputation. I know boys talk in the locker room, halls and outside school. Girls are instant Dear Abbie's.
If you decide to go on what your doing I hope you are on birth control and he is using a condom. If you kids are not taking the above precautions, you and he are eventually going to get burned.
2007-11-14 20:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by Country Boy 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No itz not bad, but consider the problems that might appear- S.T.D.s, babies, and other type of health issues. Plus, there is one more thing to consider, your reputation! Some may see this as slutty actions for as young as you are.
2007-11-14 20:18:45 · answer #6 · answered by J.C. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do what you want. (Like anyone could make you do otherwise...)
But remember this.
One day you will meet a guy who you really want to be with forever. How will you feel when he finds out that you've been with half the football squad?
2007-11-14 20:19:32 · answer #7 · answered by chocolahoma 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's sorda normal.. I was like that with my boyfriend when I was 16 & 17.. Go ahead and do it but make sure you guys use condoms!
2007-11-14 20:26:05 · answer #8 · answered by Amber S 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yup, you're a nasty ho
2007-11-14 20:30:28 · answer #9 · answered by Me 1 · 2⤊ 2⤋