Guy question?
Say your in love with this girl and shes is everything to you and you see her as your wife one day living the fairy tale..but right now in your life you have other stuff to do college..ect.....say you feed her lines to keep her holding on this long but when you tell her you need time for you and although she says she will wait forever for you instead you say you don't want to feel like your being pressured ..so in return she runs away ..do you chase her? or just let her go..even though she may be the one!
2007-11-14 11:50:57 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
by the way im not a kid..im almost 30 ,,
here she is http://i62.photobucket.com/albums/h114/SHYBABYWANTSIT/DSC00051.jpg
2007-11-14 11:54:57 · update #1
i should add i have been putting "us" off for the past 4 yrs cause i was scared.
2007-11-14 11:56:35 · update #2
no thats really her ..myspace.com/blahblahblahblahandblah
thats her myspace if u dont believe me haha
2007-11-14 12:01:37 · update #3
If you feel like someone is "the one", then you pour yourself into them and hold onto them with everything you have regardless of what is going on in your life!
2007-11-14 12:02:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Tell her the truth, the whole truth. That is the only thing that will make it work. If she is the "one", it will work out the way it is suppose to. Why can't you have a relationship with all these other things going on? Or does college also mean partying and dating other girls? Life will always be busy, so you need to learn how to balance things. If you really cared about her, you wouldn't be "feeding her lines". By the way, women want to be chased, so go get her if she is what you want.
2007-11-14 12:04:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She probably runs away because she isn't sure how you feel about her. If you continue to pursue her she will know you really do care for her. If you don't, then don't expect her to be there for you when you are finally ready. Believe me, for a woman, being pursued is part of the relationship, even when you do get married. It is a frame of mind and action that says, I want you and I'm coming after you. Most mar rages fail because the pursuit has ended. Keeping the romance and the closeness is important for women, not just during the dating period but all through the relationship.
2007-11-14 12:08:57 · answer #3 · answered by godsgirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd promote off him asap. If he likes yet another female and she him, WHAT ARE YOU DOING??? true love would not play video games or have wandering eyes, it really is committed and hard artwork. you ought to work out this as a pink flag, a deal breaker, strike 3. Your youthful, i'm guessing, you shouldn't also be thinking a severe relationship that is going to reason you lack of self belief. have exciting, do not develop into overly invested in this, WHAT? you may't flirt? flow on, the writing is on the wall and it spells difficulty. Do your self a choose and reduce the guy loose, no matter if that's destined to be, it is going to run it really is route and he will be decrease back. yet why you may want to take him decrease back in difficulty-free words you may answer.
2016-10-24 06:19:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please don't chase her if you are not wanting and planning to immediately give her what she has wanted -- and you claim to have wanted -- all along.
I can't figure out what it is you "need time" for, but worse is "feed(ing) her lines" and the VERY worst is that she promises that she'll wait for you forever, and you complain about the "pressure" she's giving you!?!?!!!!
Okay, so you are almost 30, so maybe you are ready to grow up now, but for heaven's sake, don't plan on solving all your marital problems 4 years late and with a gun to your head.
2007-11-14 12:36:17 · answer #5 · answered by and_y_knot 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I guess your just plain dumb or stupid to let someone like her go. You can get thru school and still be married, it's been done all the time. The problem with you is you just want to be single and not have someone there with you all the time. Well if I was you I would get on my knees and ask her for forgiveness and try to get her back. You DUMBA *S*S
2007-11-14 12:16:59 · answer #6 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look man at times I was feeling this with my girl.. Its because there are times that you need to be alone and focus on school which is important to you. Also at such a young age you want to enjoy you're self especially in college. If she's the one then she will be coming back to you and realize you're the one. Hope I was of great help...
2007-11-14 11:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by gn1877 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You have already chased her off because you put your personal life above the life she tried to develop with her. Let her enjoy her life and finish what you are doing before you start another relationship and put anyone else in that predicament or learn to balance.
2007-11-14 11:54:42 · answer #8 · answered by Los 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you are sure you really love her, you tell her and you let her know you have to finish college and whatever and ask if she is willing to wait.
If she says no, then you let her go.
Joy to you.
2007-11-14 11:55:12 · answer #9 · answered by frillyfroofroo 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she really is the one, she will wait wouldn't she? I guess you just have to wait and see. Time is your answer.
2007-11-14 11:55:52 · answer #10 · answered by caliguy_30 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋